Question:
Are you happy you had a RNY?

Was weight loss surgery a good choice? Any regrets? Is it really life changing? Are you genuinely happy that you took this step?    — [Deactivated Member] (posted on August 1, 2010)


August 1, 2010
If I had to Id do it all over again. Bariatric surgery saved my life. I have no regrets except I didnt do it years ago.Its a great choice and yes its life changing. You have to be willing to change or you will defeat the surgery. Bariatric surgery is only a tool for you to use to help with the weight loss.You can sabatoge it by not listening to the doctors and surgeons.I am extremely happy I had Bariatric surgery. My life is so much better ,I am much happier and healthier. It wasnt an easy journey and im still heading towards my goal weight.I hope if you decide to make this journey with those of us on the path. That you have much sucess. -Andy
   — Andy Lafferty

August 1, 2010
While I didn't have an RNY, I am happy I had WLS. I was banded 03/09/09 at a weight of 384. I'm now around 233 and life is so much better and I'm still losing. Do your research, investigate the pros & cons of each type of WLS, and chose the one that's the right fit for YOU. Best of luck on whatever choice you make.
   — Lisaizme

August 1, 2010
It will be a year since I had my RNY surgery. I will tell you this year has been ROUGH! Would I do it again? in a heartbeat! I was starting to have a lot of medical issues with the weight, and quite frankly I was not happy in my skin! As Andy stated WLS is a tool, you must follow your Dr's directives and change your eating habits for your ENTIRE life. I wish I was able to the the VGS instead of the RNY, but my insurance at that time would not pay and I do not have $25,000 to do it on my own and I had so many issues after surgery that I thank God I had insurance. Good luck!
   — FSUMom

August 1, 2010
absolutely! I am two years out and love life now! Wish i had done it years ago! good luck!!
   — gpcmist

August 2, 2010
Hi Brenda, I would absolutely do it again. I just wish I had had the rny earlier. I had the lapband and was allergic to it... caused so many medical problems. Once it was removed it took 2 years before a revision could be thought about. It was 3 years and 3 months after it was removed when I had my RNY. My energy level is up. I can do more. I am more confident in my appearance, which transfers to everything I do. I look and feel good. I had been diagnosed with sleep apnea... and then 2 weeks before surgery diabetes (A1C was 8+ and blood sugar was 500)... once I had the surgery I never took medication again for the diabetes. And now my A1C is 5, blood sugar is 93... this is 6 months after surgery. Hope this helps.
   — Kathleen O.

August 2, 2010
I would do again, without hesitation. This is a major operation that can have serious side effects. There is a lot of work and you must change your diet and exercise for this to truly be successful. I had a life threatening complication and was in ICU and on life support. This had nothing to do with my doctor just a very bad bile leak that ruptured my intentional wall. Even with all of that I would do it again. I am 6 months out and have lost 107 pounds and have 40 left to goal. It is life changing, and in many cases life saving.
   — dowens67

August 2, 2010
Yes I would again and again! They have a gastric sleevce that is much easier. I would do that instead of RNY
   — Kimberly Ten Kate

August 2, 2010
I checked your profile, and see your scheduled for surgery tomorrow, is this true? Congratulations if so...I completely understand your questioning things, especially in lieu of a looming surgery date upon you. This so natural...I believe it happens to most all of us. No worries, keep your faith in you Doctor, and his staff, and you'll be fine! Keep us all posted on your outcome, and please don't fret....you too will be here giving your advice REAL soon, to someone in need!! Best wishes to you!
   — Lisa1212

August 2, 2010
Brenda, This Thursday, August 5th, I will celebrate my 5 year anniversary as an RNY, WLS patient. There is not a day that goes by that I don't give thanks. It gave me a new lease on life as the saying goes. I've been sober for 5 1/2 years, my hypertension is gone. ( 110/70 is normal for me now ), and my Type II diabetes is gone as well. A1C is around 95. If you haven't had this done but are considering it, I can tell you from my own experience that is was the best thing I could have ever done for myself. My overall quality of life has improved in almost all aspects of my life. One day I will get to walk each of my daughters down the aisle. There was a time when I was fairly sure that wasn't going to happen. I wasn't quite 50 years old yet then. Are there those out there who have bad experiences? Yes, to be honest there are, however I'm willing to bet the positive experiences FAR outweigh the negative ones. Attitude is of utmost importance. I looked at this a a wonderful thing and my recovery was phenomenal. My doctor was willing to let me go back to work ( light duty ) after one week. I chose to take two weeks off, just to be on the safe side. I did have a problem with dumping syndrome in the beginning but the benefits from this procedure FAR exceed the temporary discomfort I experienced. If you have other questions that I can answer I promise to be completely honest with you. Ask anything you want. Good Luck. Ray
   — Arl3rd

August 2, 2010
Hello Barbara. What can I say? I feel that my decision saved me from an early death! It certainly has improved so much! I am now wearing size 12 for the first time in over 25 years. My work relationships have improved and I have made new friends (some I don't want, but what the heck). I love seeing mouths fly open when people see me. If course you have the jealous ones but that comes with human nature and I don't care about that. The clothes shopping is amazing!! It seems that everything looks good on me! I have a great supportive husband, but for the first time in years I am receiving looks from other men when I walk pass them or while while strolling down the street. Now I do work out daily and I watch what I eat and take my vitamins; drink and eat protein. I am almost 7 months out and will reach my goal and BMI in 8 pounds! It's a miracle! If you are considering WLS and your doctor is on board; do it. I had the RNY. And make sure you attend a good bariatric group.
   — Pilar12

August 2, 2010
I just passed my 7 mo surgiversary and am down 98 lbs. I started at 291 lbs., and am now below 200, which I haven't been for more years than I can remember. I most DEFINITELY would do it again and again and again. As a lot of these other people have already said, my only regret is that I didn't do it sooner. While going through the process and all the hoop-jumping, I had my doubts, but now I'm so glad that I stuck with it. If you can't get through all of the pre-req stuff, then you can't handle the surgery. Best of luck to you!!!
   — taylork25

August 5, 2010
I have mixed feelings. I'm 5 or 6 years post op. Have had problems with not absorbing iron and other things. Recently dx with breast cancer with surgery. Problems with taken oral medications, hard to take pain meds.
   — smparker2

August 28, 2010
Hi I hate to say this but for me i should have found another choice I had rny surgery. I have a whole lot of regrets as far as me having to be in the hospital 3 times in 3 months and then I cant eat nothing at all only liquids until my Dr stretch my pouch.And yes it is really life changing for anyone it's what you make of it.And yes I am genuinely disappointed in myself for having this surgery and I ask GOD everyday to forgive and to help me get as far back to normal as possible. Sorry that it sounds so disappointing (my Statement)but ikts true and how I feel.
   — Tamc27




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