How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

My PCP and I discussed it after I spoke with one of his nurses about it, whose mother had the surgery. It immediately seemed like a viable option to me.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

The hospital I stayed at had a brand new bariatric wing. The nurses were wonderful and even when I needed help with the most personal of things, they were willing to help me. I was in the hospital for 3 1/2 days. The most important thing to bring is a supportive family and friends.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

I thank the Lord that I did not have any complications. I am 1 year out and the surgeon and I are watching one area to make sure I don't get a hernia.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

In the weeks after surgery the main problem was sleeping in a bed. I had to sleep in my recliner and would recommend it to anyone. I am prone to panic attacks so I had medication to help me when I was really starting to feel anxiety over the whole procedure. The doctor also gave me Reglan and pain pills so I was never that uncomfortable.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

I belonged to 2 aftercare support groups. Since my surgery, one has disbanded. The support group picks up where the surgeon leaves off, giving needed advice as to what to do at new pre=op, 3 months, 6 months, and beyond. I personally believe that the more you go to support groups the more successful you'll become.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

I have a large scar. Unfortunately it is larger than I expected, but seems to be a familial trait.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

Plateaus are tough. Especially when you are doing all the right things and your weight goes up a few pounds. But it helps develop patience and I'm proud to say at this time I just broke a plateau and have lost 101 pounds.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

I notice that I am more outgoing that I was before. So people are reacting to me differently. I have more confidence and can move. And I look better. So with my new carriage of myself, of course others will treat me better.