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"I Won't Change"
on May 8, 2008

If you are considering weight loss surgery, someone in your life has probably expressed fears that surgery and weight loss will change you—the person they love just as you are now. It may be tempting to respond, “I won’t change,” but chances are, you will. You may even transform in completely unexpected ways.

In their book From the Inside Out: Resolving Obesity through the New Science of Bariatrics, Steven Baum, Angela Bickman and Paula Magid bust a series of weight loss surgery myths: among them, the myth that your personality will be unchanged after surgery.

What do Weight Loss Surgery Patients Say?

“I was just curious to see what others’ opinions are or what you have gone through after WLS. Did your personality change? More confidence? More daring/less conservative?

Click here to read more of, "I Won't Change."

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Staying Centered
on May 6, 2008

OH members like you want to reach a variety of goals…

 

Click any of the following goals to make them your own!

 

- Feel sexy again!

- Become free of obesity-related health issues.

- Enjoy having my picture taken.

- Do things with family without getting tired.

- Swim without a T-shirt on.

- Buy myself a suit off the rack.

- Learn to love myself.

- Be able to play and run with my kids.

- Get rid of my CPAP machine.

 

What’s your goal? Share it with others at ObesityHelp.com/goals.

 

OH member Chad Soileau knows the value of making goals and working towards them. In fact, he has completed over 83 goals since he began his personal journey! Today, 254 pounds lighter, Chad has just met one of his fitness goals: complete a triathlon. While he’s already done some amazing feats, Chad won’t be happy until he has met several other goals. Here are just a few of them:

 

• Complete ISAA personal trainer certification

• Complete the 26.2 mile Mardi Gras Marathon in New Orleans

• Qualify for and complete the Boston and New York City Marathons

• Complete an IronMan 70.2 Half-triathalon

• Complete the IronMan Championship Series Triathlon in Hawaii

 

Share a Goal on ObesityHelp.com!

It’s easy to create and share your goals with other members.

1. Go to www.obesityhelp.com/goals and log in to your account.

2. In the “My goal is to …” box on the top right, type your goal. (example: run three miles)

3. Press the button that says “I’m going to do this.” You should see a list of similar goals.

4. If you see a goal you like, click on the link that matches. (example: Run three miles)

5. On the page for that goal, you will see a button that says “I want to do this too.” Click it.

6. Press “Save”

 

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Intimacy, Sexuality and the Weight Loss Patient
on May 5, 2008

Sexual satisfaction is highly correlated with body image for women. Research shows that if women feel fat, they are less sexual than if they feel thin. Although there are many possible explanations, women seem to have more trouble with confidence in the “dating game” after weight loss surgery than men. Many of my female patients tell me that they have a loss of libido prior to surgery. For most of them, this is improved after their surgery when they lose twenty-five pounds or more. Men may not experience the same body image issues, but they can suffer erectile dysfunction before weight loss surgery due to comorbid conditions such as Type 2 diabetes, circulation problems and medications.

Click here to read more about Intimacy, Sexuality and the Weight Loss Patient.

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The Lap Band Golden Rules
on May 5, 2008

In his book The LAP-BAND Solution—A Partnership for Weight Loss, Paul O’Brien, MD, a world leader in bariatric surgery and weight loss, shares what he calls the “Golden Rules” for the LAP-BAND. Dr. O’Brien—head of the Centre for Obesity Research and Education at Monash University, Melbourne, and National Medical Director of the American Institute of Gastric Banding in Dallas, Texas—is recognized as one of the foremost authorities on the LAP-BAND. We are please to provide you with free access to all of Chapter 10 from the the book, The LAP-BAND Solution—A Partnership for Weight Loss. 

Click here to read all of Chapter 10, The Golden Rules of Eating and Exercise.

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Ask OH!
on April 29, 2008

Members like you asked, and OH’s network of professionals answered!

Do you have a question you would like to ask of a plastic surgeon, bariatric surgeon, fitness expert, dietitian, psychologist or other bariatric professional? Send your questions to AskOH@obesityhelp.com, and we will print answers to select questions in future issues.

Q: I am post-op and approximately 230 pounds. What body weight should I get down to before I start running, and should I begin running on a treadmill rather than the street?
James

A: There is no standard in regards to what body weight you must achieve prior to initiating a running program. That said, there are several points you should consider prior to running:

• Running is a fairly high-impact activity that may further complicate any orthopedic issues you may have. This may further be exaggerated if you are still obese or overweight. Please seek medical clearance for general exercise participation and, more specifically, discuss any orthopedic problems that may limit your exercise participation.

• Using a treadmill will reduce the amount of impact associated with running or walking, so you may want to consider starting with a treadmill rather than the street, sidewalk or track.

• One of the factors most frequently overlooked by recreational exercisers is proper shoes. You MUST get the proper shoes for the type of feet you have and the activity you will be participating in. Runnersworld.com has great information about fitting and finding the proper footwear.

• Take your time! If you are new to running or have not done it for years, begin slowly and at a low intensity. 

Check out the Fitness Forum for detailed guidelines about how to design a cardiovascular training program.

The fitness question above was answered by Jeremy Gentles, CSCS, OH’s own exercise and fitness expert. Please visit www.obesityhelp.com/forums/fitness for more information.

Q: I had breast augmentation and a tummy tuck one week ago. How long should I wear the abdominal binder? It causes me discomfort around the drainage sites. Maybe I could just wait until the drains are pulled and then wear it? Or am I going to be horribly lumpy from omitting it? That said, I only had a small amount of skin removed and minimal liposuction.
Shannon

A: Well, I am going to be very careful with this one. First and foremost, you should consult directly with your plastic surgeon. I will tell you that, in our practice, we have our patients wear their abdominal binders around the clock (except when showering or doing their wound care). The abdominal binder is important for several reasons. The binder will keep your swelling down. It will decrease the risk of bleeding and/or fluid accumulation within the fairly large surgical site underneath your skin. The binder also provides reinforcement and support for your newly tightened abdominal wall muscles. In our practice, the abdominal binder is an essential and important part of the recovery from abdominoplasty.

This question was answered by board certified plastic surgeon Steven Gitt, MD, FACS. For more information about Dr. Gitt and his practice please visit his ObesityHelp profile or visit his website at www.NVPSAZ.com.

Q: I have faith in my surgeon but I question the Medifast pre-op diet. I have been on Medifast—the program with bars, shakes, soups—and lost pretty quickly, but I found it hard to stay with. I am five weeks pre-op and have been put on Medifast shakes only. I asked if I could have just one lean and green, which others get, and they said no. Isn’t it unhealthy to be on just 500 calories per day? I know I need to lose 25-30 pounds before LAP-BAND surgery, but can’t I do that with a few more calories and a protein meat and veggie?
Nancy

A: You could and should most certainly be on more than a 500-calorie liquid diet, especially if you have five weeks to go before surgery. The very low calorie diet (VLCD) has been shown in the literature to have some success in the short term, but it should not be followed for long periods of time. Patients find them very difficult to stick to. I, at least in this practice, have never had a patient have successful pre-op weight loss on less than 1000 calories. Within the past few months, nine patients have called struggling with pre-op weight loss, and upon review of their food intake records, all nine patients were consuming between 700 to 1000 calories. I had them increase their calories to 1200 to1400 per day, and all nine patients met their pre-op weight loss goals and had surgery. I find that it is a common misunderstanding that consuming less means more weight loss. I would recommend four to five small meals per day. Two meals should consist of a liquid meal replacement drink or frozen meal replacement (healthy choice, lean cuisine). One meal should be a small snack at the time the patient feels most hungry (morning, afternoon or evening). The last meal should be a balanced home-cooked meal consisting of all food groups: 3 oz. of lean protein, 1/4 cup vegetables or fruit, 4 to 8 oz. of low-fat dairy and a small complex carbohydrate.

This question was answered by Gina Comer, RD, a registered dietitian specializing in bariatrics at the office of bariatric surgeon Michael W. Johnell, MD, FACS. To learn more about Dr. Johnell, visit his ObesityHelp profile.

Q: I lost 107 pounds and have gained all but 20 pounds back. My pouch stretched fast—within eight months. I considered myself very lucky since I never suffered any dumping, no throwing-up early or later. One strange thing is I never got the connection from stomach to brain, I was always hungry and upset about not grazing. I now realize I must have more mental problems which did not allow me to have lasting results from such a procedure. I feel like such a failure! I have many major health issues which demand reduction in body weight. I have not helped myself, only put this “stressed out” body and mind through trauma for nothing. I also suffer from Bipolar Disorder. This has been hell on my self-esteem.
Ruby

A: Ruby, I am sorry to see you struggling so, yet I am glad you had the courage to seek support. You raise a number of important concerns with your comments. First, while you have regained all but twenty pounds, that does not mean you failed the surgery. Rather, I suspect that your pouch remains plenty small enough that you have the opportunity to be more successful now than when you started with your surgery. Your awareness of your issues and desire for help are tremendous assets.
You are right to suspect that psychological and emotional factors play such a significant role in influencing the success of post-surgery weight loss maintenance. It’s unfortunate that meaningful psychotherapy wasn’t required before surgery, as it might have saved you much hardship and discouragement. I am curious about your mentioning that you suffer with Bipolar Disorder. Are you under the care of a mental health professional? In any event, I would encourage you to seek assistance from a bariatric surgery supportive and qualified mental health professional in your neck of the woods. I would expect that they would be able to accurately assess your circumstances and tailor your treatment with an eye towards helping you to get back on track.

This question was answered by Stephen J. Ritz, PhD, who is a Licensed Psychologist in Georgia, and a member of ObesityHelp’s Mental Health Board.

Q: I had my gastric bypass surgery in 1998 and I lost 15 pounds total. Why do you think I have not lost weight? I eat only 4 oz. at a time and don’t drink while I eat. I don’t eat much during the day. The doctor that performed the surgery left his practice in 1999 and I have not had a follow-up with anyone. I have several hernia repairs where the incision is and the hernias keep coming back. Any suggestions? My morale is down, and every time I see the big scar in my stomach and my weight, it depresses me.
Gladys

A: I recommend that you visit with your primary care provider for a full check-up. Lack of expected weight loss and recurrent incisional hernias are depressing medical problems indeed. You need a complete nutritional work-up. Our experience has been that patients who have undergone gastric bypass can have serious nutritional deficiencies—especially if they do not take the recommended amount of protein, multivitamins, iron, calcium citrate and B-12. It is not uncommon for patients to become severely iron deficient and anemic—especially if they are menstruating females. If you and your PCP feel that there may be a problem with the underlying surgery (problems such as ulcer, fistula, stricture and others), your PCP can refer you to a bariatric surgeon, preferably one that is a regular member of the American Society for Metabolic and Bariatric Surgery (ASMBS). Gastric bypass patients need yearly check-ups due to malabsorption of nutrients. A baseline DEXA scan (bone density scan) would be prudent as well.

This question was answered by board certified bariatric surgeon Michael W. Johnell, MD, FACS, who is the Medical Director of Bariatric Surgery at the North Colorado Medical Center in Greeley, Colorado. To learn more about Dr. Johnell, visit his ObesityHelp profile.

Remember, while the professionals contributing to Ask OH are highly skilled and well-qualified in their fields, they don’t know all of the details of your personal situation. Discuss the answers you receive, and any further questions you may have, with your personal healthcare team.

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In Loving Memory of Jeannie Colter "JC"
on April 22, 2008

It is with profound sadness that we share with you that we have lost a dear member of our OH family this weekend. Jeannie Colter, known affectionately to many of us as "JC", was resting comfortably at home on Sunday afternoon, April 20, when she passed away. She was surrounded by family, friends, and loving messages from all who knew her.

It is our sincere wish that those loving messages will fill the minds and hearts of JC's family, particularly Tammy Colter, another beloved member of our OH family.

Should you like to share your wishes of sympathy and your memories of JC with the Colter family, please leave your comments and wishes below or visit JC’s profile here on ObesityHelp. Cards may also be sent to the Colter family, care of ObesityHelp, at 8001 Irvine Center Dr., Suite 1270, Irvine, CA 92618.

We would also like to encourage everyone to take the time to read a recently published article in Bariatrics Today, that captured JC’s passion for Bariatrics and how she touched the lives of so many she met. Click here to read the article, Changing the Shape of Bariatrics – A Tribute to Jeannie Colter.

JC, you are and will forever be missed.

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Geoff Wolf - The Athlete Inside
on April 22, 2008

Geoff Wolf was one of “those people” who claimed there was not enough time in a day to exercise. Between running the family business with his father and brother and raising two young kids, exercise was never a priority. But since losing 180 pounds after Dr. Norbert Richardson performed his January 2005 Roux-en-Y surgery, Geoff is now “that person” who tells others they need to make the time for exercise because exercise for Geoff is now a way of life.

It was in 2004, after visiting the family doctor, that 34-year-old Geoff realized he needed to make drastic changes in his life or his children would grow up without their father. The doctor said, “you are on high blood pressure medication, anti-depressants and your blood sugar is out of control. You will be dead by the time you reach your forties.” Geoff said, “The thought of my kids going through their lives without their Daddy is too unbelievable.” After countless unsuccessful diets, and spending a few months researching weight loss surgery, Geoff knew what he needed to do to get his health back. “My insurance company would not cover the surgery,” Geoff said. “I paid for the surgery myself and it was the best money I ever spent.” Read the rest of Geoff's story in the Exercise and Fitness Forum.  

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Gastric Bypass Special on CBS's 60 Minutes - The Bypass Effect
posted by Jeremy Gentles on April 21, 2008

CBS aired The Gastric Effect on 60 Minutes last night and it turned out to be a pretty interesting special. There is no need to go into detail about the
special since you can watch the The Gastric Effect for yourself below. However, there is one portion of the video that I must say was my favorite.

Lesley Stahl, the reporter for 60 minutes, was interviewing eight individuals who had gastric bypass. Lesley Stahl asked the panel of eight post-ops, "How
many of you had diabetes before your operation?" All of the eight post-ops raised their hands. Lesley Stahl then asked, "How many of you have diabetes now?"
Not a single hand was raised!

Take a look for yourself and let us know what your favorite part was.

Want to learn more about Gastric Bypass? Check out ObesityHelp's Gastric Bypass Forum!

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Robots and Weight Loss Surgery
on April 16, 2008

Totally Robotic Laparoscopic Roux-en-Y Gastric Bypass (TRLRYGB)

Obesity is a growing public health problem in the United States with nearly one-third of the US population meeting the definition of obesity, defined as having a body mass index (BMI) greater than 30 kg/m2.  To date, only bariatric surgery has been demonstrated to be of long-term therapeutic benefit for patients who are morbidly obese. This dependence on surgical treatment has resulted in an impressive increase in the number of gastric bypasses performed in the United States increasing from 16,000 to 103,000 per year over the last 11 years. The surgery itself is technically and physically demanding on the surgeon. A significant learning curve of 70-100 cases for the Laparoscopic Roux-en-Y Gastric Bypass (LRYGB) has been demonstrated, and complication rates and operative times tend to be highest in a surgeon’s first 75 cases.  Many of the challenges seen with this operation are secondary to the limitations of laparoscopy – 2-D camera, long instruments, counterintuitive instrument movement, loss of two degrees of freedom and the abdominal wall torque caused by the morbidly obese abdominal wall. The strain on the surgeon can lead to fatigue, tremors and neuropathies.

To learn more about robotic weight loss surgery, visit ObesityHelp's RNY Forum to read the article, Totally Robotic Laparoscopic Roux-en-Y Gastric Bypass (TRLRYGB).

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The Book Corner
on April 16, 2008

A Review of Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children: Six Steps to Hope and Healing

 

With guest reviewer Kathi Macias

 

Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children: Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents by Allison Bottke has set a new standard for excellence. Not only does this book deliver what it promises—six practical steps to help struggling parents recover and reclaim their lives and their sanity—but it does so in a remarkable manner. Bottke is no flash-in-the-pan author or an expert on a particular topic who has managed to write an acceptable manuscript; she is an extraordinary writer with exceptional talent who is willing to bare her heart to her readers. This is a rare gift and one she freely gives throughout this gripping book, which at times reads like one of the best how-to manuals on the market and at other times like an edge-of-your-seat novel. From Bottke’s soul-rending opening account of her New Year’s Day post-SWAT team encounter to her final words of encouragement to parents in like situations, Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children keeps readers hungrily devouring its contents, even as hope builds in their hearts.

 

Bottke has done her homework. She has interviewed and surveyed parents and experts at every level, and she has included quotes from many of them throughout her book. And yet, even with the validity these quotes add to this must-have parental resource, the depth and honesty of Bottke’s own story is enough to make this a classic in its own right.

 

If you (or someone you know) are a parent struggling with the ongoing issues of an adult child in continual crisis, stop whatever you’re doing and go buy this book. Then read it and put it into practice! Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children has the potential to set you free, restore your joy, and maybe even save your life—or that of your adult child.

 

Kathi Macias, www.kathimacias.com, is author of BEYOND ME: Living a You-First Life in a Me-First World (New Hope Publishers, Spring 2008).

 

Make sure to also visit ObesityHelp's Family and Friends Support Forum.

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