Honey, I don't usually get "involved" in threads like this but I need to say this. You need to take a break from posting so much OT crapola. These people you're ******g off are the very ones you're gonna be asking for advice. They are all very valuable sources of info. Some can be "quirky" but we're all different. BUT 99% of the people on these boards really CARE! They stick around for years, their own time, give and give and give. They Pay It Forward! 1/2 the people you see on here will be gone within a year of surgery. Sure they pop in every now and then but the ones you're insulting are what make this forum. Without these very people, yeah, I'd of had the DS but would not know how to take care of myself correctly. I was fed a bunch of RNY crap as most are, by the NUTS. A thread similiar to yours is what got my attention. The ones being called meanies were the same you're wagging your finger at, 2 1/2 years ago. They helped save my ass. If people would read and understand their frustration instead of getting their panties in a wad, they'd see, hey may be tough love, but these people CARE!! Get off your high horse and learn a thing or two!! BTW I'm 10 months post op, have been a member since March 2009 and I learn something new EVERYDAY!!! Good luck to you!
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