Thank you everyone

I want to take a moment to thank everyone who has offered advice and words of kindness to me. Thank you words seem hollow because your words and advice have lifted me and my spirits. I know I am not the only one to lose a mate while going through this whole process, and I feel for each and everyone of you with deep empathy. Today while at HRRH I asked to speak with social work and there were alot of tears and concern . They are such a caring bunch of people, they deserve stress pay for sure lol. ILL GET THROUGH THIS ON TOP AND THE EX... HE WILL REGRET IT, especially when he sees what he threw away

We are sorry to hear all you are going through...

It would appear that you and I are losing our spouses at the same time. Two different reasons but "stupidity" at the root cause of both situations.  Stay focused on your health journey. Put some extra oomph into your exercise as it is a healthy way to vent.    Stay strong , get support where you can and when you need it.  We are about to embark on a wider path than most when it comes to transformation.    We can do it!  One foot in front of the other

thanks for the boost in the butt. You know I layed in bed for almost a month, feeling ssoooo bad and depressed, Ive a membership at the "Y" I need to use up extra energy for sure. and I will come out on top

wow..seems as though an aweful lot of us wls people , lose our mates. sucks to be them I guess.right now I just wish I felt better,  I keep beating myself up, with playing the tape over and over.... know it will pass, but it sucks right now,, I can only dream that one day he will see me and realize his loss. He had called me GROSS in the past, and that left a mark on my heart that I dont think will ever go away. Karma has his name on the list

Thats right Reenie , you will get through this. And you will be a much stronger person when this is over.. You have such a bright future ahead of you. Even brighter now that hes gone. Trust me , what doesnt kill us makes us stronger.... ...Krista...

no truer words have beeen spoken

yes I know, what dosent kill us will make us stronger. but it sucks, still the same.  i really dont like men, liars , cheaters, rape us women of feelings, and emotion. They are the weaker sex, for sure. At Hrrh today the nurse was so concerned about me that she put mssgs through to dr. sohi, who was in surgery (trying to fix one of us) and made me wait until he returned her call. Those ppl at HRRH truly are amazing and care. I hope you are doing well, I am down another 26 lbs, still a ways to go and losing slowly but steady.........my downhill really is a climb to the top. They were pleased with my progress, told me I should eat more and earlier in the day. Im roasting my buzzard today, and sharing with an old friend and my son, I know you love to cook as well, I hope oyur thanksgiving finds you, and your loved ones well and fullfilled with love

I am doing well Reenie , thanks for asking. I am so glad they are helping you at HRRH. I wish you a Happy thanks giving hun..Talk to you soon ....Krista..

I know that when my ex partner left that that was when my life really took off! Hopefully you will eventually feel something like that.