SEX r rated

has your sleeve effected your sex drive

 what you want to do, what you can do

 what you should do

 my hubby is hoping that I transfer my food addiction to a sex addiction lol

That's a transfer addiction I could live with!

Sex is hotter now! I feel better about myself, and feel different while with hubby:) not sure how it changed, but for the best!

You are probably looking for an answer from a woman, but I can tell you for the first month post op the last thing on my mind was sex. After that things pretty well returned to normal.

Other than during the first couple of weeks when I was pretty tired it hasn't changed my drive at all. However, it definitely has affected my, umm, ability. Just like other activities - it's easier, less tiring and more fun when carrying 60# less.

Well for me it really upped my sex drive now instead of my husband wearing me out I am wearing him out but he don't complain about it lol.

In some ways, I'm a little more self conscious now because there's just skin everywhere, but that's probably because we can do all kinds of stuff that we couldn't 200 pounds ago. LOL. Otherwise... dude... no complaints.

It's a little weird because everything shrinks and you fit together differently and the angles change, etc... it's just an adjustment.

Let's just say that the change has been good.

I'm single and haven't had sex in a while.  However, when I was in a relationship I just couldn't enjoy it, I always felt like I was going to die and couldn't breathe.  Maybe after I lose another 50 or so, I'll feel like giving it a try again.  3 weeks out and haven't thought much about it all.