Food Funerals ;)
"Fear often separates us from destiny, Have the courage to walk through it! Even if your eyes are closed." -Lovelee07
Our minds tell us we will never eat those foods again so we have to have them. Food funerals are totally normal. I had a few of them before starting my liquid diet.
I'm pre-op and have a food funeral every time I leave the surgery center. Saturday I was there for support group and made my third visit to my favorite FF spot afterwards. I noticed my visits to the spot are becoming less urgent. On the first visit, that's all I could think about during the WLS seminar. By the third visit, I'm noticing the taste of the food more. I still mourn it, but the thought of never having X again is not as scary. This is such a head game. This forum is helping me to realize that when I lose the weight it's possible my view of food as my good friend and comfort may actually change to fuel for my body. This is still very scary, but seems a bit more manageable. Does anyone post-op continue to mourn their old comfort foods? How have you dealt with this?