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on 1/7/12 5:16 am, edited 1/7/12 5:17 am
on 1/7/12 5:16 am, edited 1/7/12 5:17 am
Anne,
You seem to be so invested in this situation that you aren't able to see clearly what role you are playing in it. It is crazy-making behavior for you to act victimized and ask them to stop, only to then continue to deliberately provoke more of the same with your passive-aggressive "helping". Either you have completely lost perspective or you are enjoying this for some reason.
To come here, announce that you are a mental health professional, then to continuously engage in this behavior is really inappropriate. It is also inappropriate, ethically, to conduct an "experiement' on individuals without their knowledge and consent (as you have claimed to be doing). You know that.
Even if you were in the clear ethically, it just ought to be really embarassing.
You seem to be so invested in this situation that you aren't able to see clearly what role you are playing in it. It is crazy-making behavior for you to act victimized and ask them to stop, only to then continue to deliberately provoke more of the same with your passive-aggressive "helping". Either you have completely lost perspective or you are enjoying this for some reason.
To come here, announce that you are a mental health professional, then to continuously engage in this behavior is really inappropriate. It is also inappropriate, ethically, to conduct an "experiement' on individuals without their knowledge and consent (as you have claimed to be doing). You know that.
Even if you were in the clear ethically, it just ought to be really embarassing.
On January 7, 2012 at 1:16 PM Pacific Time, Devoted wrote:
Anne, You seem to be so invested in this situation that you aren't able to see clearly what role you are playing in it. It is crazy-making behavior for you to act victimized and ask them to stop, only to then continue to deliberately provoke more of the same with your passive-aggressive "helping". Either you have completely lost perspective or you are enjoying this for some reason.
To come here, announce that you are a mental health professional, then to continuously engage in this behavior is really inappropriate. It is also inappropriate, ethically, to conduct an "experiement' on individuals without their knowledge and consent (as you have claimed to be doing). You know that.
Even if you were in the clear ethically, it just ought to be really embarassing.
Cicerogirl, The PhD
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Thank you, Lora.
My intention has been to do anything I can to clean up the Main Board. I don't claim any credit for doing so, and I am most grateful that that has happened.
My other intention has been on a personal basis to explore what it takes to stand up to abuse, and the meanies and haters here have given me tremendous grist for the mill.
Now I'm just having fun, because this is the R&R board.
My intention has been to do anything I can to clean up the Main Board. I don't claim any credit for doing so, and I am most grateful that that has happened.
My other intention has been on a personal basis to explore what it takes to stand up to abuse, and the meanies and haters here have given me tremendous grist for the mill.
Now I'm just having fun, because this is the R&R board.
"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls the butterfly." Richard Bach
"Support fosters your growth. If you are getting enough of the right support, you will experience a major transformation in yourself. You will discover a sense of empowerment and peace you have never before experienced. You will come to believe you can overcome your challenges and find some joy in this world." Katie Jay
On January 29, 2012 at 1:48 PM Pacific Time, AnneGG wrote:
Thank you, Lora.My intention has been to do anything I can to clean up the Main Board. I don't claim any credit for doing so, and I am most grateful that that has happened.
My other intention has been on a personal basis to explore what it takes to stand up to abuse, and the meanies and haters here have given me tremendous grist for the mill.
Now I'm just having fun, because this is the R&R board.
Huh?
THAT is why you are on OH? Sweetie - unless OH pays you a nice sum, I'm not sure your intentions are not worth a damn here. Bless your heart.
Some people think the "meanies and haters" are logical, truth speaking realists. Being direct doesn't mean someone is mean. Speaking the truth doesn't mean someone is a hater. Judge not.... I'm guessing you know how that phrase ends.
Dawn 
I have no problem with directness and speaking one's truth; on the contrary, I applaud it, and work on doing the same myself.
I do have a problem with meanness for meanness' sake, and it's pretty easy to identify the hate is you just read some of the posts directed at me and some of the others here. No one should have to be subjected to that, particularily on a support forum.
My intentions have been worth a damn, because the Main Board is now being appropriately moderated to make it a safe, supportive, and informative place for newbies and vets alike to come to. I am grateful for that.
Whatever people want to say here on R & R can be said- including the slime. I expect that, and just consider (not judge) the messenger.
I do have a problem with meanness for meanness' sake, and it's pretty easy to identify the hate is you just read some of the posts directed at me and some of the others here. No one should have to be subjected to that, particularily on a support forum.
My intentions have been worth a damn, because the Main Board is now being appropriately moderated to make it a safe, supportive, and informative place for newbies and vets alike to come to. I am grateful for that.
Whatever people want to say here on R & R can be said- including the slime. I expect that, and just consider (not judge) the messenger.
"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls the butterfly." Richard Bach
"Support fosters your growth. If you are getting enough of the right support, you will experience a major transformation in yourself. You will discover a sense of empowerment and peace you have never before experienced. You will come to believe you can overcome your challenges and find some joy in this world." Katie Jay
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