I had a revelatory experience over Halloween in Palm Beach - I am ABSOLUTELY NOT INTERESTED IN OLD MEN! period exclamation point never ever ever barf .
so there's a dilemma ! I've been rejecting guys forever cuz I simply didn't feel attractive... now I'm in a really scary place where the few guys I'm attracted to really have no business with me . It's like a circling ... circling ... spend time together ever so casually thing .
fertility is a real issue . As is sex . Answers anyone ?
What are you saying exactly? That the type that are interested in you, you're not interested in? And the type you are interested in, are not interested in you? That would be a dilemma! Is it a physical rejection immediately, or do you allow time to know each other? And "old Men" is relative. How old are you, or what do YOU consider as old? The more restrictive our requirements. the smaller the pool we have to choose from. But it's your right, your choice. My wife is 17 years younger than I, but even now more mature than I. And she chose me even when I was over 300 lbs and in reality "an older man"! So we don't want to forget where we came from, where we were judged by how we look when perhaps a beautiful person was inside ready to come out. I mean, if you're not attractive to someone, you're not attractive, but at least give yourself a chance. No answer, just a thought. Wish you well!
Willie - some guuurls , who are over 50 like boys , who are in their 20s...so I have read...!
Not me! I am 62. My husband, of nearly 30 years is 66. He works very, very hard, and comes every night. He is faithful. He worships me He loves God. , THOSE are sexy qualities!!
RNY 4-22-02... HAG=Honest And Genuine
LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:160
I learn something new, EVERY day, from SOME body
Umm, wait I'm confused. Last we heard you were getting.married and in luuurve.
5'3", CW: 165 Ultimate Goal: 150 ............. Livin' La KETO Loca!!
134 lbs lost since surgery, 195 overall!! Initial goal reached 9/15/17, (10.5 months)!
SW*: 299 GW: 175 HW 3/2015: 360 PSW* 5/2016: 330 *PSW=Prog Start Wt; SW=Surgery Wt
M1 -31, M2 -10, M3 -15, M4 -16, M5 -8, M6 -6, M7 -11, M8 -8, M9 -8, M10 -4, M10.5 -7 GOAL
Foolish consistencies are the hobgoblins of little minds.
Jim Age 54 Height 6 Feet Consult Weight 344 SW 289 Pre-Surgery -55, M1 -25, M2 -16, M3 -21, M4 -10, M5 -5, M6 -1, M7 -4, M8 0, M9 +4, M10 -4
World Class Fitness in 100 Words: Eat meats and vegetables, nuts and seeds, some fruit, little starch and no sugar. Keep intake to levels that will support exercise but not body fat. Practice and train major lifts: Deadlift, Clean, Squat, Presses, Clean & Jerk, and Snatch, Similarly master the basics of gymnastics: Pull-ups, Dips, Rope Climb, Push-ups, Sit-ups, Presses to Handstands, Pirouettes, Flips, Splits and Holds. Bike, Run, Swim, Row, etc. hard and fast. Five or six days per week mix these elements in as many combinations and patterns as creativity will allow. Routine is the enemy. Keep workouts short and intense. Regularly learn and play new sports.
So, between old men, young men, and fertility worries, there's only one option. Old wimmen. Keep us updated.
6'3" tall, male. Maintaining a loss of 280 pounds.
Highest weight was 475. Consult weight 04/12 was 411. RNY on 08/21/12 at 359 lbs. Current weight 195.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.