Babiez on Da Brain !

(deactivated member)
on 11/27/19 4:50 am

Yep ... it's like the Mos Totally Inapproriate Time... but when is d time right to have a $ 300,000 burden lol?! ( cost of raising one child and sending em thru college ... prob radically underestimated lol)

truth is I see th childless friends over my parents retiring and dying alone .... so sad .

Peeple w kids and grandkids r much happier more fulfilled and proud .

how do you new parents and potential parents feel struggling with these huge issues ? Are you ok with Ur food ? Do you scarf down your kids foods leftovers ? I can imagine so many nightmares ty

jmk187
on 11/27/19 8:57 am
VSG on 02/13/19
  • I thought you said you had fertility issues and that was your concern of getting with a young boy because he would want kids...

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(deactivated member)
on 11/28/19 3:19 am

Well yes as a diabetic and super early excess estrogen caused breast cancer survivor I would be NUTS to consider carrying my own child ... however I saved my eggs so I can have my own kids whenever I want .

I'm not in the least afraid of being " old " as they grow because I'm not remotely old now ... ( thank God) .. However they are needy little creatures not to mention expensive ... and I'm just getting started in the career I've always desired and dreamed of . Which is also hugely demanding. And yes I prefer having kids with a partner ( though I see ever more divorces and horrible custody battles where the kids are used as hostages to get the more affluent parent to support the deadbeat one)

Cathy H.
on 11/27/19 2:20 pm, edited 11/27/19 8:30 am
VSG on 10/31/16

Shouldn't this be in the off-topic forum? And aren't you worried you're too old to start having kids? Won't you be nearly 70 when they graduate high school?

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Grim_Traveller
on 11/28/19 12:17 am
RNY on 08/21/12

Do you honestly think they will ever graduate from high school?

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Amy R.
on 11/28/19 2:45 am
On November 27, 2019 at 12:50 PM Pacific Time, quutgrrl wrote:

Yep ... it's like the Mos Totally Inapproriate Time... but when is d time right to have a $ 300,000 burden lol?! ( cost of raising one child and sending em thru college ... prob radically underestimated lol)

truth is I see th childless friends over my parents retiring and dying alone .... so sad .

Peeple w kids and grandkids r much happier more fulfilled and proud .

how do you new parents and potential parents feel struggling with these huge issues ? Are you ok with Ur food ? Do you scarf down your kids foods leftovers ? I can imagine so many nightmares ty

...

ronaldshow
on 5/13/21 7:50 am

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