"Really you have to exercise??" stupid things ppl say

Mandalious
on 10/30/13 5:00 am - Canada
RNY on 12/03/13

Vent session!

Sitting with some friends today at lunch. Talking about everything and my surgery come up.

Talking about various things, dumping, small  bites. etc. Stuff we all know from here and research that " outsider" dont know.

I was talking about how I have to make sure I get my ass in the habit of exercise cause Im gonna have to really work to get to my goal of losing 250lbs.

A couple said. YOU HAVE TO EXERCISE and watch what you eat? Whats the point? OMG .....

I spend 45 mins explaining everything over and over and they still left saying. They thought it was just gonna melt off me.

Lord have mercy...

 

 Referral May 17 '13 / Orientation June 17 '13 / Meeting w Dr Hagen June 26 '13 / RN,RD,SW July 31 '13 / Dr.Glazer Sept 3 '13/ Sleep Study Sept 5 '13 /2nd app w Dr Hagen Sept 16 '13 / F/U w  Dr Glazer  Sept 23 '13 / PRATTS Nov 14 '13/ Surgery Dec 3rd '13

        

    
jen1016
on 10/30/13 5:05 am - Ottawa, Canada
RNY on 09/19/13

Wait till after surgery and they ask you how much you have lost, and you hit the three week stall and they will be " that's it?"!  I love my mother, but she can't understand how the pounds aren't just melting away with eating so little.  I have given up trying to explain it to her LOL. 

 

 

 

    

    
Mandalious
on 10/30/13 5:10 am - Canada
RNY on 12/03/13

I have decide today that I wont be telling ppl numbers. "I m just gonna keep saying its coming off. Im happy with the process '

Gonna repeat it until Im blue in the face

 

 Referral May 17 '13 / Orientation June 17 '13 / Meeting w Dr Hagen June 26 '13 / RN,RD,SW July 31 '13 / Dr.Glazer Sept 3 '13/ Sleep Study Sept 5 '13 /2nd app w Dr Hagen Sept 16 '13 / F/U w  Dr Glazer  Sept 23 '13 / PRATTS Nov 14 '13/ Surgery Dec 3rd '13

        

    
hibbyangel
on 10/30/13 5:12 am - Canada
RNY on 07/17/13

i think that most peoples idea is "the easy way out" or they really know jack about the surgery so when you actually explain to them how its shakes down..and its not all sunshine and rainbows..they always say its not worth the hassles or something like that..its annoying :cheeky

        
Mandalious
on 10/30/13 5:21 am - Canada
RNY on 12/03/13

SMH.. stunned.

OH well. doing it for me.. not for them.

Im adopting the attitude of " mind ya own business"

 

 Referral May 17 '13 / Orientation June 17 '13 / Meeting w Dr Hagen June 26 '13 / RN,RD,SW July 31 '13 / Dr.Glazer Sept 3 '13/ Sleep Study Sept 5 '13 /2nd app w Dr Hagen Sept 16 '13 / F/U w  Dr Glazer  Sept 23 '13 / PRATTS Nov 14 '13/ Surgery Dec 3rd '13

        

    
Charlene Straus
on 10/30/13 9:53 pm - Mississauga, Canada

Why is it, people do not understand, just because you buy a saw and a hammer, the house does not build itself?

        

        

NorthernStar
on 10/31/13 12:36 am - London, Canada
RNY on 06/25/12

This is a GREAT analogy. Very hard to build a house without those tools, but the tools alone won't do the job.

Some people seem to think that it's a "fat removal" surgery. They have NO idea what's involved. I have explained RNY to a few close friends a few times and they still don't get that there is malabsorption/bypass. It's ok though, as long as YOU know what you're getting into that's all that matters.

*Lindsey*

Keeping off 133 lbs since 2012!

Referral to Bariatric Registry: May 2011   /   Surgery (HRRH): June 25, 2012         

BIGJAY1972
on 10/31/13 8:52 am

I have learned people are stupid. that is all.

    
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