How do you handle all of the new attention?
OK, so every time I go out, it seems that people are staring at me and stop talking when I walk by. I asked my boyfriend today why they were doing that, and he said they are checkin' me out. I just laughed at him ....who would check ME out?
Anyway, I get kinda embarrassed and uncomfortable when this happens. How do you all handle the new attention? Do you just ignore it? How do you keep it from making you self conscious? I'm finding myself relucant to go into public because I think they are all judging me or something -- I dunno.
Any advice would be appreciated
Anyway, I get kinda embarrassed and uncomfortable when this happens. How do you all handle the new attention? Do you just ignore it? How do you keep it from making you self conscious? I'm finding myself relucant to go into public because I think they are all judging me or something -- I dunno.
Any advice would be appreciated
I use it as motivation, and as validation that what I am working so hard at is really working. If people notice a difference, then it is really happening. It does feel good.
Don't dwell on the negative. Just enjoy the fact that others are noticing what you are being successful at!
Don't dwell on the negative. Just enjoy the fact that others are noticing what you are being successful at!
HW 234 SW 222 CW 159 Sur Goal: 175 My goal 140-145
People who are not family members are just starting to comment now. I think it has to do with me finally buying a few items of clothing that fit my smaller size. I try to shrug it off with a thank you and move on.
The HARD part is when they ask how I am losing it. I don't want to lie but I don't want to tell them about the surgery either.
The HARD part is when they ask how I am losing it. I don't want to lie but I don't want to tell them about the surgery either.
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