Weight , ummm and stuff
Yeah- I know, this has nothing to do with my surgery, and I apologize... I'm just at my wits end and dont know what to do. Any Ideas ???? just realized- whatever I title this, it will show up on my email when someone replies, so I have to think of something else...
Any chance he wants to go to therapy?
You're being abused. You need help. Is there a domestic violence hotline in your town? Check your yellow pages. If not, look for a rape crisis hotline or a domestic violence shelter. Call them, they'll direct you further.
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
But get help. Don't put up with being abused. You don't deserve it.
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
I used to work at an agency that provided services to abused women as well as treatment for abusive men (most were court ordered) and it was not that uncommon for women to not realize they were being abused until one day their boyfriend or husband finally hit them. But when they started talking, it was apparent they'd been abused for a long time. They didn't like the way they were being treated but thought it might be their fault or that maybe they were making a big deal about nothing if they complained about it.
It is abuse. And you do NOT deserve it.
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.