OT - I HATE being used
Jenny
Start weight 282, Surgery weight 265, Current weight 131, Goal weight 140
A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water. Eleanor Roosevelt
FWIW, I have run into a number of men who were "users" (or tried to be, LOL) as well.
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
so sorry to hear that, the good guys always seem to get hurt more often than the bad guys, she will realize what she missed out on soon enough, and when she comes crawling back wanting to be your friend or be a couple, I wouldn't do it, that was so wrong of her to take advantage of you, especially when you are going through life changing events, but hang in there, I can tell u r a good guy, and I know u will find someone soon that will appreciates u and love u for who u r, big or small. I am having my surgery in 2 wks and i am dreading the part that some of my friends now might not be there after because of jealousy and I am not looking forward to my relationships changing, I have read that most friendships will change after surgery either for the better or for the worse, so hang in there and be strong and focus on you right now and only you. ttyl add me as a friend if u would like to
"When you know better, you do better." ~Maya Angelou~
BW 334.4 / CW: 227 / GW 180
That's awful. She isn't worth your time or energy. You seem like a really nice guy. My hubbs is a nice guy and he got ME!! LOL. Put the Coach away until you find the right girl to give it to. The hubbs bought me my first Coach on our honeymoon (9 yrs ago), and now I bet he's wishing he never started. All my friend call me a Coach ***** I have the bags, shoes, key chains....
Take care. Hope you are rockin your RNY!!