Need some support
It is very difficult to deal with such life changes while dealing with the physiological changes from your surgery. I suggest that you find a therapist who has experience with weight loss patients, and discuss you issues with the threapist. Perhaps you may need to be on an antidepressant to get you through this rocky time, but you will need someone who can help with coping skills.
Take care
I think when something like this happen, we have to take it one step at a time. It's OK if you don't know how you're going to make it all the way through this. You just need to figure out what to do to make it through today.
Get all the support you can. You've already started by posting here. This is the time to lean on the people that love you. Getting a professional therapist is probably a good idea for anyone going through a divorce. Are you on meds for your depression? If not, what do you think about talking to your doctor to see if that might help?
How are you doing financially without a job now? Do you have enough money for your rent and groceries and stuff?
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
What are you doing to take care of yoruself?
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
Therapy and supportive medication can be a godsend to help you through this.
You will get through this to the other side, and who knows how happy your life will turn out!
Please continue to take excellent care of yourself no matter what.
"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls the butterfly." Richard Bach
"Support fosters your growth. If you are getting enough of the right support, you will experience a major transformation in yourself. You will discover a sense of empowerment and peace you have never before experienced. You will come to believe you can overcome your challenges and find some joy in this world." Katie Jay