UPDATE to earlier post "less than 24 hrs til surgery and the nerves have set...

So here is how things progressed since then.............

It has been an extremely stressful day!!! Doctors office  called this afternoon and left me a msg to return their call and said that it was urgent! I tried and tried to reach them  and kept getting the machine and couldnt leave a msg! Finally got thru about an hour later around 4 pm and they said the hospital had called my insurance for the pre-cert and they said my surgery wasnt approved and that they never received any of my paperwork!!!! Bull**** bull**** bull****!  They received ALL of my paperwork. They even called me and left me a voice mail saying that they did and called back again to tell me I was approved and would be getting an approval letter in the mail. I got the letter and so did the doctors office. My doctors office resent all the info and even sent them a copy of the approval letter but they continued to say I had not been approved! I called them and  went round and round with them but they still said the same thing and said  it could take up to 5 business days to get the approval! Are you f'n kidding me???? Needless to say, after about 2 and 1/2 hours on the phone with these clowns they finally approved the hospital stay!!!!!They kept telling me the surgery may have been approved but the hospital stay wasnt!!! WHAT??? WTF does that even mean??? Anyway, so the hubby did his best to calm me down after that cuz I couldnt even think straight. He took me out to dinner ( my doctor didnt require any special pre-op diet) and everything just kept going wrong there too. So we finished up and went home and he proceeded to tell me all of the things that had gone RIGHT with our day! God I love my man