No. RNY patients can't absorb calcium carbonate due to the lack of stomach acid.
Why does your doctor say people with kidney issues should not take calcium citrate? I know that calcium carbonate can cause kidney stones, but calcium citrate does not. What kidney problems does calcium citrate cause?
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