Mood swings
I was just wondering if I am the only one that feels this way. I mean one day I am feeling like my weight loss is too slow and that I am never gonna reach my goal, or that it just seems too fr away. And then all of a sudden I am feeling great, so beautiful and completely happy with where I am heading. That usually happens after trying on some clothes and finding out that they actually fit!!! I guess that it is just all a bit confusing and overwhelming and I wonder if you guys are like that as well.
Yes! That is exactly how I feel!! One day I feel great. I'm down 120 pounds - very close to my goal (surpassed my surgeon's goal a long time ago). I'm a size 4/6 and I still have plenty of "fat" days, as I call them, where I just feel huge and gross and like I haven't lost a pound. Then (and you're right, when I try on clothes that I pick up and think - there is no way this tiny pair of pants will fit me, and it does) that I feel invincible. I think it's part of the journey. I also think skinny people feel this way too. I also think it is somewhat related to my time of the month!
I also concur with the other poster that mentioned comparing ourselves to others. Especially on this site, when I was 4 or 5 months out, there were people that had lost so much more than I had at the time. That did make me feel discouraged. I did learn that we all lose at the rate we're going to lose and it's not a race. I started out as a lightweight, which made it take longer to lose, but in the end, I'm almost at goal. It's hard not to compare!
on 12/11/13 11:54 pm
I think it is normal, WLS or not.
HW333--SW 289--GW of 160 5' 11" woman. I only know the way I know & when you ask for input/advice, you'll get the way I've been successful through my surgeon & nutritionist. Please consult your surgeon & nutritionist for how to do it their way. Biggest regret? Not doing this 10 years ago! Every day is better than the day before...and it was a pretty great day!

















