Mood swings

dessalves
on 12/11/13 6:35 pm

I was just wondering if I am the only one that feels this way. I mean one day I am feeling like my weight loss is too slow and that I am never gonna reach my goal, or that it just seems too fr away. And then all of a sudden I am feeling great, so beautiful and completely happy with where I am heading. That usually happens after trying on some clothes and finding out that they actually fit!!! I guess that it is just all a bit confusing and overwhelming and I wonder if you guys are like that as well.

        

Lora R.
on 12/11/13 6:53 pm
RNY on 09/12/13

Yes!  Have felt that many times, especially when you compare what you have done to someone else on here.  I know we shouldn't do that, but who hasn't?  Have to keep reminding myself, look at the big picture.  It definitely didn't get on my body overnight.  Good luck!

 RNY: 9/12/13 HW:  347  SW:  315  CW:  183  BEST THING I EVER DID FOR MYSELF! 

    

    
Ocalasam
on 12/11/13 9:12 pm
RNY on 12/18/12

Yes!  That is exactly how I feel!!  One day I feel great.  I'm down 120 pounds - very close to my goal (surpassed my surgeon's goal a long time ago).  I'm a size 4/6 and I still have plenty of "fat" days, as I call them, where I just feel huge and gross and like I haven't lost a pound.  Then (and you're right, when I try on clothes that I pick up and think - there is no way this tiny pair of pants will fit me, and it does) that I feel invincible.  I think it's part of the journey.  I also think skinny people feel this way too.  I also think it is somewhat related to my time of the month!

        

                                
Ocalasam
on 12/11/13 9:15 pm
RNY on 12/18/12

I also concur with the other poster that mentioned comparing ourselves to others.  Especially on this site, when I was 4 or 5 months out, there were people that had lost so much more than I had at the time.  That did make me feel discouraged.  I did learn that we all lose at the rate we're going to lose and it's not a race.  I started out as a lightweight, which made it take longer to lose, but in the end, I'm almost at goal.  It's hard not to compare!

        

                                
gtrdyfor50
on 12/11/13 10:04 pm
RNY on 10/08/13
This journey is definitely ridden on a roller coaster! I just keep telling myself that it is part of it, one day at a time, don't sweat everything. Look at the big picture, my insides are so much healthier than they were the month prior and that was my main goal!

    

     

                                                
PetHairMagnet
on 12/11/13 11:54 pm
RNY on 05/13/13

I think it is normal, WLS or not. 

 

    

HW333--SW 289--GW of 160 5' 11" woman.  I only know the way I know & when you ask for input/advice, you'll get the way I've been successful through my surgeon & nutritionist. Please consult your surgeon & nutritionist for how to do it their way.  Biggest regret? Not doing this 10 years ago! Every day is better than the day before...and it was a pretty great day!

        

    

    

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