dressing room cry !
I HATE to shop for clothes,,,,, ,dreaded going out today and put if off until the last minute.
Had to make a few basic purchases because the " baggie " look went out a while back.
Reluctantly grabbed a few thing and brushed off the hot 20 something year old that wanted to help me shop----never happening.
Went in to the dressing room, not facing the mirror as usual, tried on the clothes......turned around and cried !
I looked normal. Normal clothes, no t-shirt to hide behind, no baggie clothes....they fit and fit well. I didn't stick out...I fit in again. Its been awhile.
I may go back tomorrow.......
on 2/24/14 7:21 am
I HATE to shop for clothes,,,,, ,dreaded going out today and put if off until the last minute.
Had to make a few basic purchases because the " baggie " look went out a while back.
Reluctantly grabbed a few thing and brushed off the hot 20 something year old that wanted to help me shop----never happening.
Went in to the dressing room, not facing the mirror as usual, tried on the clothes......turned around and cried !
I looked normal. Normal clothes, no t-shirt to hide behind, no baggie clothes....they fit and fit well. I didn't stick out...I fit in again. Its been awhile.
I may go back tomorrow.......
YAY! WHOO HOO! Party time, party time, got to buy some clothes and shine!!
And let that young thing do the stylist thing for you!
I went into WHBM for ONE item, but I had to try it on and then I got way laid looking at something else I loved. When I got to the dressing room she had put together about a dozen looks for me. I did not really have interest in them, but tried them on and low and behold...looked AWESOME in many of them. And not ONE of them would I have tried on if she'd not put them in there. And I'm 47, so it's not like I'm a youngster. :)
Now I request a stylist session before I even head in to certain stores and my wardrobe has expanded tremendously in the way I dress as much as anything. Still my classic self, but updated in a chic and fresh way! Give it a try! :)
HW333--SW 289--GW of 160 5' 11" woman. I only know the way I know & when you ask for input/advice, you'll get the way I've been successful through my surgeon & nutritionist. Please consult your surgeon & nutritionist for how to do it their way. Biggest regret? Not doing this 10 years ago! Every day is better than the day before...and it was a pretty great day!
I'm a size 10 now and I still automatically head for the women's plus size section at Macy's .
on 2/24/14 9:02 am
It is so satisfying being able to buy clothes you like not just because they fit. It actually becomes fun instead of the dreaded large size stores. Unfortunately I think my cross addiction has become clothes shopping.
I know for a fact it has for me. I am spending thousands and thousands on new clothes and jewelry and accessories and running gear and clothes and jewelry...well, you get the idea, lol.
HW333--SW 289--GW of 160 5' 11" woman. I only know the way I know & when you ask for input/advice, you'll get the way I've been successful through my surgeon & nutritionist. Please consult your surgeon & nutritionist for how to do it their way. Biggest regret? Not doing this 10 years ago! Every day is better than the day before...and it was a pretty great day!
on 2/25/14 1:09 am
Jewelry definitely sounds like a cross-addiction, since all of my funky little necklaces fit the same no matter what I weigh
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