Question for the ladies! :)
RNY on 11/20/13
I definitely get more attention. I'm happily married but hubby gets a real kick out of leaning over and whispering "That guy was checking you out!" I also wear a lot more daring stuff now which emphasizes things. I wore a strapless gown on my last cruise and he really loved parading me around and bragging on who was looking at me. I guess I'm his arm candy now!
I've even had a distant uncle on hubby's side (80+ years old) tell me " You are looking good girl! No, I mean you are REALLY looking good!"
Generally you'll get more attention - as Grim said - what you do with the attention is your choice! Personally, my choice is to gleefully grin on the inside and carry myself proudly on the outside.