Photo whoring and a warning...need some advise from alum

Thought I would share some pics from a recent girls trip, I am 14 months out now... and share some things I learned this last week as well as get some advise if anything similar has happened.

1st, I was hoping that I would be a cheaper date... no, I can drink the same amount as prior to surgery.... a lot.

2nd, how have people adjusted to the new attention they get post op from the opposite (and same;-) ) sex?  I am torn... it feels good to flirt ( I am happily married) and get attention... to a certain point, and then it feels weird.... Not because I would ever cheat on my husband, but because I think deep down, I don't believe them... I don't believe that they could actually think I am attractive.  I guess I don't know how to explain, has anyone else felt similar?  I had 2 different guys tell me that I have self esteem issues (WTF, we weren't even talking about this, I don't know where it came from) because I brushed off their compliments.

Also, maybe because I am new to this "scene", but since when is the married women the most desirable of the group?  Seriously... When I say I am married, it was met with, "no worries, so am I..." which then progressed to "hey baby..." lol. I guess I am just naive.

Thanks for listening to my ramble.....





~Jenn

You look great, not really sure on those answers but I'm sure it has to do with no strings attached sorta thing, oh and I like to flirt to just cuz I know I can, but am happily married and would never do nothing to harm that.

 Wtg!!!!

 No wonder! If I was a guy...lol
You look awsome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Alla

 Can totally relate,,, somedays it feels good and other days I just get plain mad about it thinking I am the same girl I was before only smaller and now you pay attention to me when before you just ignored me like I didn't exist aaahhhh makes a girl just mad sometimes that is when I flirt abuse it and get them to let me cut in line at the grocery store lol