How do I
I told a friend today about my scheduled surgery tomorrow and now she wants to come visit this weekend she lives 2 or 3 hours away how do I tell her not to come I just dont think im gonna be up to it My husband was mad I told her to begin with and now I am regretting it I love her but just think its not the time
Tell her that you would definitely like to see her after you're home from surgery, and that you appreciate her understanding.
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Height: 5'-7" HW: 449 SW: 392 GW: 179 CW: 220
I'm a big fan of the truth. "I'll let you know as soon as I'm up for visitors." That should do it. Good luck!
Lanie; Age: 43; Surgery Date (VSG): 8/12/14 w/complications resulting in RNY next day;
Height: 5' 6" SW: 249 Comfort Zone: 135-140 CW: 138 (10/13/17)
M1: -25 lbs M2: -12 M3: -13 M4: -7 M5: -11 M6: -10 M7: -7 M8: -7 M9: -3 M10: -8 M11: -4 M12: -4
5K PR - 24:15 (4/23/16) First 10K - 53:30 (10/18/15)
on 6/15/15 9:07 pm
You can always blame the doctor! "The surgeon said no visitors for at least a week so I can get enough rest."
Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!
Blame it on the doctor - tell her that he has said he wants you to resting, no exertion and no visitors for at least 7-10 days. Minimize risk of infection....blah, blah, blah :-)