I am new

Hello I am Len, I am new to this board but not to OH, my wife had surgery a year ago tomorrow. I am very proud of her, but our marriage has never been this rocky and it scares me to death, any suggestions? She suggested I post in the hopes of finding some support. Thanks to you all.

Len the fact that your wife suggested posting on the board is a good sign. Talking about our fears and problems helps I posted some suggestions that have helped us on the boad good luck taylor

Well Len,
I would recommend being supportive as you can. She is putting herself first. It may feel like she is putting you last but honestly her success depends on her determination. After being married for 10 yrs, I think my hubby feels the same way. I work out, grocery shop for my needs, I dress up, go out with my friends. I think its a hit to the ego right?

Michelle