Well...I grew up in a small town. I was an athlete. Softball, track, volleyball and basketball. I was healthy and in shape. Then I graduated . Now for the last 15 years I've been gaining weight. I've tried everything like everyone else. 

Two summers ago I was at an amusement park with my girlfriend and our kids and I couldn't ride the rides with my son. He was almost 10 at the time. He was so disappointed and I was embarrassed. It was at that moment that I decided that I needed to get serious. Our daughter was about a year and a half at the time. I gained even more rapidly after I gave birth to her. Life must change.

My girlfriend, of 7 years, is pregnant now and due in May. This will be our 2nd together as my son is from a previous relationship and we only get to see him when it's convenient for his biological mom.  I want to be there for my kids. I want to "fit" in with society.

Being a lesbian and being fat...two things for people to judge me on...I am making the choice to change the only one I can. 

Peace
Amy-jo

Hate is NOT a family value!

About Me
Cedar Rapids, IA
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45.4
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Surgery
12/10/2007
Surgery Date
Feb 11, 2007
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