special kay
2 years!!!
Jan 16, 2008
When I starting researching the surgery I was 450 lbs!! The day of surgery, I was 388. Right now I'm 181 lbs!!!!!! Now that's what I call a BLESSING!!!!! Once I reached my lowest weight, I maintained it for a few months but I gained 10 lbs. back. I'm now back to my lowest again. I eat pretty normal and still do protein shakes everyday. Without them, my hair falls out.
I wear a size 10 pants and a size 12 tops! The skin is horrible but I'll take this skin anyday over being 450 again. I'm so afraid to have plastic surgery but I do want it. I promised myself that I would at least go to a couple consults to get information. I'm ready for my boobs to be back where they should be! LOL!
I am so thankful for this site, without it, I never would of had this surgery! I have met some really awesome friends and don't know what I would do without the support of my girls on the January board! They are truly the best!!!! At least 2 times a week, I get messages and/or commets from people telling me how good I'm doing. I appreciate every single commet that I get and it's what truly keeps me going and helps me stay on track!
My aviatar was taken a few days ago on my 2 year anniversay so that is the new me. I'm going to take some full body shots this weekend and have thme next week! I love the camera now!
GOD bless!!!! I love you guys!
Therepy
Dec 18, 2007
I haven't posted in a while. I was waiting for me 2 year anniversary but I decided to share something! After seperating from my partner and moving back to SC, I gained a little weight, got depressed, starting becoming extremely obsessed with weighing myself, food and clothes sizes. I was having dreams that I was waking up 450 again.
At a routine dr. visit to my pcp, I mentioned it to my dr. and she recommened that I see a therapist that specializes in eating disorders. I started going about 3 weeks ago and it has helped me a lot. I'm back to my lowest weight of 182 and she's helping me through my obsessive food thinking. I never knew how much of a obsession I had with food til after surgery. Other than that, I'm doing good. I promise to have pictures and and update next month for my 2 year anniversary!
Good & Bad update..
Mar 29, 2007
As far as my weight loss.. I'm 188 lbs. now and I'm loving it! I would like to loose a couple more lbs. but if I don't, I'll still be happy with my results. I bought a pair of size 12 jeans the other day and that was the best feeling in the world. My goal from the very beginning was to get in a size 12 jeans and I did it!! My other major goal was to at least loose 200 lbs. from surgery and I did that too!! I'm proud of what I have accomplished! In my move, I lost my digital camera so I cant put up pictures as often as I use to but I do have some I took the other day that I'm gonna post soon! Thanks to everyone that takes the time out to read and respond to my journal!!! Take Care and GOD bless!!
Goodbye Plus size!!
Mar 06, 2007
I was trying to not buy any clothes til summer and work with what I got but my jeans were sagging bad! I was sick of hearing, "Your clothes are too big". Well duh, I'm still loosing weight! Anyway, I went to Fashion Bug and tried on 16 pants and 14/16 tops. Guess what, they were all too big! The sales lady said, " I don't know why you are over here anyway.". So I go over to the "regular" side and grab a 16 and they are also too big. So the sales lady brings me a size 14 and they fit!! OMG, I fit into a size 14 REGULAR!! I repeat, I fit into a size 14 REGULAR!! I'm thinking maybe their clothes just run big or something?! I seriously can't remember the last time I was able to wear a size 14! I even bought a couple XL tops that fit great!
When I left, I went straight to CATO to try on more clothes because i was convinced that Fashion Bug's clothes just fit big. Nope, I fit into a size 14 their too! This is so unreal! The weird thing is when I go into stores, I still go to the plus size first. I don't feel like I belong on the regular side. Weird, I know! I feel like people are wondering why is that big lady on this side? Yea, I know people could care less what I'm doing but my mind is playing tricks on me!
How Could I forget?
Feb 02, 2007
Onderland!!
Jan 30, 2007
Thank the Lord, I made it to ONDERLAND!!! I cant believe my weight starts with a 1. Monday morning I got on the scale and it said, 199 lbs. I actually stepped on the scale about 4 times to make sure it was correct. It was!! When I was 450 lbs, I always said, "It would be nice if I can just make it under 200 lbs." Sometimes I felt like it was a unrealistic goal but I made it real! I worked my butt off for this. I have lost 189 lbs. in a year! My WLS goal is to loose 213 lbs. so I only have 24 lbs. to go to get to 175 lbs. It's a great feeling to be here in onderland!! I never wanna leave!
The Plateau Buster Diet Worked For Me!
Jan 25, 2007
A few ladies on the January board did the plateau buster diet and did really good on it! Since I going back and forth between 209 and 212, I decided to give it a try. Last Monday I started the diet at 212 lbs. and this morning I'm 201 lbs. At first I thought there is no way I can eat just protein for 10 days but it really wasn't that bad. All that protein kept me full! Protein first is the important thing with wls but I started to slack on that rule after I indulged in a lot of carbs during Christmas. This diet help me get back on track! I'm happy I took on the challenge. My fingers and toes are crossed that I get to "onderland" really soon.
Not one but 2 Hernia's!!
Jan 11, 2007
So the past few months I've been having a weird feeling in my upper right stomach. Not really a pain but more like some pressure. I tried to ignore it but it wasn't going away so I had a CT scan done. It took forever for me to get my results back but I got them back the other day. My doc said there are 2 small hernia's ( 2.5 centi. each) AND a cyst on my right overy. This scared me so bad. All I could do was cry as I listened to my doc be so calm about it. She said it's nothing to stress about but I'm a big DRAMA QUEEN so I had to play my part. I'm better now. I'm gonna talk to my gyn. about the cyst and my 1 year appointment with my surgeon is coming up so I'll talk to him about the hernias. I know hernias are common after wls so I was so suprised at that. I think the cyst freaked me out more. All I can do is hope and pray that the best comes from this. I've come so far in this journey. I'm not gonna let this get me down.
"Dancing In The Mirror"
Nov 26, 2006
Have you ever danced in the mirror? For the first time today, I danced in the mirror. I had a good reason to! You wanna know why don't you?? Ok, I'll tell you.... Last month I bought a pair of size 18 jeans from the regular department. They were on the clearance rack at Target for $5.00 so I couldn't resist that sale. I've been wearing size 18 W from the plus size but the regular 18's were really tight. So today I decided to try them on and they fit. I could even sit down and breath! LOL
When I tried them on, I felt good! I couldn't believe I was wearing size 18 jeans. I couldn't do anything but dance. I usually cry but today I danced! I got my groove on in my new $5.00 jeans and it was one incredible feeling! As I danced, my bat wings jiggled, my saggy boobies were all over the place and my flabby belly was bouncing but I didn't even care! What really mattered the most was that I was looking HOT in them jeans!
A Birthday Present To me, From Me!!
Nov 15, 2006
November 13th was my 10 month surgiversary and my birthday. I'm down 156 lbs. since surgery and have lost 218 lbs. total. That is the best birthday present that I have given myself. I cant believe how fast time has flown by. I remember marking the calender with big black X's to count down my days til surgery. I was a little nervous but more excited about my new life. I have zero regrets and I'm totally proud of myself for making such a smart decision to have this surgery. I'm sitting here typing with tears in my eyes because I just looked over at my BMI. It starts with a 3! When I was pre op, I had several surgeons turn me down because my BMI was over 70. I seriously never paid attention to how low it was til JUST now and I'm in total shock. Anyway, Life is great and I feel great. My biggest accomplishment has been walking. I can walk miles and not feel like I'm going to need to call 911 because I cant breath.
Happy Birthday and Happy Surgiversary to me!!!!