trappedagain A.
me vs them
Jun 09, 2009
The new job means I have less time on the computer. So I don't get around to OH as much. I miss lurking on the R&R board. I am working every weekend now until they hire someone to new. I also work PRN for my old job and will be training my replacement next week. OH BOY ! After that I will work when ever they need me and I am off from other job.Between the 2 jobs I have now worked 7 nights straight. I am tired and grumpy. At least I am off tomorrow.
We have talked to Sarah's Dr about her recent major weight gain. and He doesn't seam to want to handle it. He is sure the reason is her medication, but with her moods being in a delicate balance he doesn't want to change anything. I am hoping she gets more physical this summer and maybe that will help her. Her recital is this weekend. I love her ballet outfit, she loves the hip-hop. Will try to put pictures on here when I have them taken.
Andy just got back from spending 2 weeks in Ma with his girlfriend. She paid for the ticket for him to fly to see her. He arrived back home safe and sound covered with hickeys. He promised that he kept it in his pants. I told him I didn't want any grand kids yet. Not until he is done with school.
Ben is on medication for ADD and depression. He is trying counseling to help him deal with the stresses in his life. I think it is a very good ideal. I see a counselor every other week. Hasn't helped much but maybe some day it will. Well so much for my boring life I must get some work done.
And the fun just keeps on rollin NOT
Mar 01, 2009
Fast forward to Feb. Sarah gets sick with some type of stomach bug. on the 1st. By the 2nd Chuck has it too. They both are getting well when the boys get it on the 4th. I manage to keep well until the 5th. Every one gets well except for me. I keep having pain in my right side. But I am stubborn and just decide to ignore it. Finally the pain is getting where I can't sleep. So I decide to call the Dr. on the 10th. The Dr says it is most likely just the bug still but he wants a CT scan just to make sure. So I leave the Dr and drive 45 minutes to the hospital for a CT scan. I don't call home because hubby is sleeping and I will be home before he wakes up. So I have the scan and am sitting waiting for the lady to call me to the window and send me home so I wait and wait. Finally she calls me up and says that I am being directly admitted and have appendicitis and will be having surgery soon. I keep saying I need to call my hubby he don't even know I am at the hospital. The next hour is a three ring circus. 20 people are asking me questions they are trying to do blood work and IV. I have to talk to surgeon and the anesthesiologist . My hubby still hasn't shown up and I am wheeled down to the OR. So I spend almost 2 days in hospital and am off work for a week. (real long story about why I had to go back to work so/too soon)
On a small brighter note I am getting ready to start a second job at the nursing home I worked as an CNA at during nursing school. I hope that helps with our ever growing money shortage. But before I can do too much there I am having a thermal ablation to help with female problems that are causing me to be anemic. Yeah more surgery. So that should almost catch us up to date still way too fat, still way too broke and still depressed. Oh well might as well get used to it.
long time no blog
Aug 18, 2008
A breif recap of the last Ben did graduate from high school and I did try to find a job closer to my family, but noone would hire me.
At Christmas time 2007 we went to visit my family and Mom was sick. She was confused sleeping talking out of her head and was very ill. After a long fight we finally convinced her to go to the hospital. She was severly anemic and required lots of blood. They ran test and found out she had cancer of her bowel. On January 4 (Sarah's birthday) the operated and removed it. They pronounced her cancer free and said they would most likly do some sort of chemo just to be on the safe side. She left the hospital determined to head back to work as soon as possable. Then things started going down hill. They thought she was having mini strokes she would start falling and become confused. They would put her in the hospital thing would get better for a while then star all over again. They had no clue as to what was going on. They even at one time flew her to Indianapolis. Finally on March 17 they ended up putting her in the hospital again. On March 28 I got a call saying they where moving Mom to the ICU because her B/P had droped. I of course drove up there. Mom had been complaining of stomach pains nausea and vomiting for a lon time but all the CT scans and all showed nothing. On the morning od the 29th they finally showed a large amount of fluid in her stomach. Her kidneys where shutting down and she needed surgery NOW. They found she was leeking from where she had the surgery in January. In fact she had been leeking all along. All the time they had her in the hospital she was slowly being posioned by C Diff. She came thru the surgery and got off dialysis and the respirator only to have to be put back on. This went on for weeks on respirator and off. Finally we relised that she wasn't going to get better. On April 24th my brothers and I signed the papers to provide comfort measures only (Dad at that time was one floor down with pnenumonia) then the wait began. They transfered her out of the ICU and into a room. I went home for a few days to get my family and to work a little. I went back on April 28 and together with my brothers we stayed around the clock. At 6:15am on May 3 I watched my Mom breath her last breath. She was 66. I called my brothers and they told Dad. I miss her so much. I need her so much. I am lost without her. She was my only friend and now I have noone to talk to noone that cares. All her life my Mom struggled with her weight and in March My brother was able to carry her to the car to take her to the hospital. She was finally thin.
During all that we found out that my daughter was Bi polar, My Hubby had surgery for a carconoid tumur and was off work from March 6 to June 10. everything that could go wrong has. car problems, eviction, My Hubby company he worked for contract didn't get renewed and a new company took over he lost 10 years of senority, his vacation time, his sick leave, and his insurance. New company is the pits but he has a job which is more than I can say for our 2 sons. They have no desire to get a job they have no desire to do anything but watch TV and play vedio games. I can't even get them to mow the grass, do laundry, feed THEIR dogs, wash dishes or cook. At the ages of 23 and 20 I thingk they should at least do that since I am paying all their bills.
I hate my life I hate that I am a failure at everything I do. I have done nothing right. If there is a desension to make I make the wrong one. I am broke, fat, insvisable, and majorly depressed.
Invisable and Job rantings
Jan 22, 2007
Now on to an even more depressing subject. My job hunt. I decided to try a local Hospital one that is only about 30 minutes from my house. I called the number on the web site and talked to the lady who hires for the position I wanted. I explained how I wanted part time to work around the job I have now and how I have no experence. She said no problem they would be glad to train me and I could cross train to work ER and ICU. She asked if I was able to come in for an interview and we set one up for Jan 11. I show up fill out my appy and she comes down the hall. She says Carol? and I say no i'm Dawn. I see her name tag and know she is looking for me and I say you have an appointment with me. It takes her a while to belive that I am who she is wanting to interview. So at the interview she changes her story., She rarely every hires new nurses for ERor ICU. She might be able to train me and work around my schedule etc... I left with the thought don't call us we'll call you NOT. I hear from her about a week later and the letter states that they are closing down the OB department and they have to find positions for those nurses first. But will keep me in mind if they find they need me. Well on Jan 18 at midnight they closed down the WHOLE Hospital. So no chance of getting a job there and the nurses from there who have experence are now out there in my local job market. This will make it even harder to get a new job. So now what do I do.
What do I love the most?
Jan 07, 2007
New year new choices
Jan 01, 2007
The next descision I have made is to find a different job. While I love my fellow employees I really hate my job. All I do is complain about it. I havent decided where to look for my new job. I know in less than 6 months Ben will graduate and I will no longer have to stay in southern IN. I really want to work in the Indianapolis area. I have thought about getting a weekend option job. I would stay with my mom and come home during the week. Or I might stay here in this area and find a job at a hospital near by.
I have also decided to start improving my life by making some new daily habits The first is reading my Bible I haven't been doing this as I ahould. The second is praying more I need to talk to and listen to God so I know what he wants from me. Third I am going to start excersing a little each day I have heard it will make me feel better. so HAPPY NEW YEAR.
I think I am going crazy
Dec 08, 2006
My newest problem is what to do about Christmas. I know I have to work from 6p-6a Christmas eve and Christmas day. Andy has to work Christmas eve from 10a-10p and Christmas day from 6a-2p. My hubby don't know when he is working. So when does santa come? My 10 year old still belives a little so he has got to come. Noone wants to miss it so what do I do. This year all the traditions are not going to happen. There will be no Christmas eve at my moms and no Christmas brunch at my brothers for us. I am so depressed. Just want to cancel the whole thing.
What to say
Dec 05, 2006
Well the biospy came back normal so the gyn is putting me on some sort of hormone type med to regulate me and maybe makke the bleeding not as heavy. I hope it works. I am to see a physical therapist for my incontance problems. The Dr. says that it works 70% of the time and is better than surgery. The surgen called and has posponed my appointment until the end of January for the colon thingy. I just might cancel and forget about it. We are still living between the two houses. We can't seam to beg borrow or steal a truck to move the big things. Andys friend keeps saying he is going to help but now is avoiding us.I just wish the move was over. I finally told our landlord we where moving. I bet she is over everyday to make sure we clean the house up after we move. Friday we had to buy Ben new glasses because he broke his old ones again. He isn't due to get frames until 1/1/07 so we had to pay for these all on our own. I wish he could have waited a month to break them. Sarah did a very good job singing at school today. But I am sad I didn't get to see Ben preform with the band tonight I was at work. I am planning to see him in the prade Saturday.
Down
Nov 26, 2006
Waiting
Nov 21, 2006