hello everyone

Apr 23, 2013

I hope everyone is great. Im doing fabulous. I have tried uploading new pics, but it did not work. I wanted to drop in and spread some love but I will be back soon. love and miss you all Alphaluv 1
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1ST MAJOR STALL

Nov 15, 2012

HELLO  EVERYONE,

   I HOPE EVERYONE IS DOING WELL, I AM FEELING A LITTLE DISCOURAGED TODAY. I AM HAVING MY FIRST REAL STALL, I HAVE NOT LOST ANY WEIGHT FOR NEARLY A MONTH. I AM LOSING INCHES BECAUSE OF HOW MY CLOTHES FIT BUT, I AM REALLY TRYING TO LOSE THE FINAL 40LBS TO REACH MY GOAL WEIGHT OF 140. I AM SUPER SHORT SO IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT FOR ME TO LOSE THIS WEIGHT. I STARTED WORKING OUT WITH A TRAINER AGAIN BECAUSE I HOPE THIS WILL SPEED THINGS UP. I WANT TO BE IN A 10 BY XMAS AND WE ARE GOING TO BE GOING TO NYC IN MARCH AND I PLAN TO DO SOME SHOPPING WHILE I'M THERE , SO I DEFINITELY HAVE TO BE AT GOAL BY THEN. OHHH, I DON'T WANT TO SOUND UNGRATEFUL BECAUSE GOD KNOWS I AM, BUT I REALLY WANT TO GET TO MY GOAL BY THEN BECAUSE I WILL BE NE YEAR OUT IN MARCH...... LORD, PLEASE GIVE ME STRENGTH.

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7 MONTH UPDATE

Oct 24, 2012

 HELLO FAMILY,
   I HOPE EVERYONE IS DOING WELL, BECAUSE YOU ALL LOOK SIMPLY FANTASTIC! I HAVE BEEN AWAY AND I HAVE BEEN SUPER BUSY. I DO CHECK IN FROM TIME TO TIME BUT HAVE NOT POSTED AS OFTEN AS I WOULD LIKE. I AM NOW ENROLLED IN SCHOOL AND WORKING TOWARDS MY MASTERS IN NURSING. IT HAS BEEN MORE THAN 20 YRS SINCE I HAVE BEEN IN SCHOOL, BUT I CAN DO IT! WEIGHT LOSS HAS BEEN THE HARDEST THING I HAVE EVER DONE AND IF I CAN DO THAT I FEEL I CAN DO ANYTHING. I HAVE A VERY STRONG SUPPORT SYSTEM AND I THANK GOD FOR THAT. I AM WORKING AND FEELING ENERGIZED. I HAVE HIT A STALL, BUT IT'S OKAY. I KNOW THIS IS NORMAL. I AM NOW WEARING A SIZE 10/12 IN SLACKS, MEDIUM TOPS AND SZ 7 IN SHOES. I AM SO EXCITED, I FEEL GOOD AND I LOOK GOOD. I LOVE WHAT I SEE WHEN I LOOK AT ME IN THE MIRROR :)
   LET ME TELL YOU LADIES, I STILL HAVE SUCH A LONG WAY TO GO BUT I KNOW I CAN DO IT. I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO MY 7/8 AND I AM SO CLOSE. LIFE IS GOOD AND I AM GRATEFUL TO THE OPPORTUNITIES GOD HAS BESTOWED UPON ME. I AM LOVING THIS JOURNEY AND I LOVE BEING MARRIED. I HAVE THE GREATEST HUSBAND EVER. HE LOVED ME JUST AS I WAS AND LOVES ME EVEN MORE. I LOVE THE LOOK IN HIS EYES WHEN HE IS CHECKING ME OUT. I AM SO BLESSED. LET ME TELL YOU LADIES, YOU HAVE TO HOLD ON AND WAIT FOR MR. RIGHT BECAUSE HE IS OUT THERE.JUST DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE. I AM AN EXAMPLE OF WHAT BEING A VIRTUAL WOMAN AND WAITING ON GOD WILL DO. BELIEVE ME, I HAVE KISSED A FROG OR TWO BEFORE MY KING FOUND ME.... WELL LADIES, I HAVE SOME STUDYING TO DO BUT, I WANTED TO LET YOU ALL KNOW ALTHOUGH I MAY NOT POST ALL THE TIME I AM WITH YOU IN SPIRIT. 
   BE BLESSED, HAPPY, HEALTHY AND SEXY.... HUGS AND KISSES TO YOU ALL.

                                                                                   ALPHALUV1




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REALLY... WHAT WAS I THINKING?

Sep 28, 2012

SO I'M GOING TO MAKE THIS SHORT AND SWEET, BUT I HAD TO SHARE. WELL, I BOUGHT LIKE 8 BRAS FROM LANE BRYANT A FEW WEEKS AGO WHEN THEY HAD THE B2G2 FREE PROMO. I HAD A TOTAL OF 16 AND I BOUGHT THEM IN ALL DIFFERENT SIZES BECAUSE I KNEW I WOULD BE LOSING AND THEY WOULD GET BIG SOON. WELL, I HAD FOUR THAT I NEVER WORE AND THEY WERE TOO BIG. WHEN I GOT THERE AND DID MY EXCHANGE I SAW A SKIRT ON DISPLAY AND EXPRESSED HOW MUCH I LIKED IT,I SAID I WANTED TO TRY IT ON TO SEE HOW IT LOOKS ON. THE ASSOCIATE SAID TO ME IN THE SWEETEST TONE, MA'AM WE DON'T CARRY YOUR SIZE. I HAVE TO TELL YOU ALL THAT WAS A WOW MOMENT... I FORGOT THAT I WAS NO LONGER A PLUS SIZE. I AM NOW IN A VERY COMFY MISSES 12, I HAD TO PROCESS IT ALL. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WAS THINKING. AS A MATTER OF FACT I REALIZED TODAY THAT IF MY BOOBS GO DOWN ANYMORE I WON'T BE ABLE TO WEAR THEIR BRAS EITHER. NOW, FAMILY... I LOVE THE WAY I LOOK, I THANK GOD FOR THE SURGERY AND A SECOND CHANCE AT LIFE BUT I ALSO LOVE THE BRAS AND SPANKS AT LANE BRYANT:)  WOW, I HAVE TO START SEARCHING FOR REALLY GOOD BRAS IN SMALLER SIZES. WELL, THE GOOD PART IS I WON'T BE PAYING SO MUCH MONEY ON BRAS.
    WOW, I AM AMAZED AT HOW FAR I HAVE COME, I MUST BE HONEST FAMILY, I DO WANT TO LOSE AT LEAST 50 MORE LBS BUT IF I DIDN'T I AM SO HAPPY OF WHERE I AM NOW. WHEN I LOOK IN THE MIRROR I LOVE WHAT I SEE. WHAT IS REALLY FUNNY IS WHEN MY CLIENTS SAY TO ME " I DID NOT KNOW IT WAS YOU UNTIL I HEARD YOUR VOICE" REALLY? THAT IS ALSO A WOW MOMENT. AND MY HUSBAND SAYS WHEN HE'S HOLDING ME AND I'M LAYING ON MY SIDE HE CAN FEEL MY HIP BONE AND HE HAS NEVER FELT THAT BEFORE ( HUH,HE DOES NOT KNOW THERE ARE A LOT OF THINGS THAT HE HAS NEVER FELT BEFORE) LOL. FAMILY, I LOVE THIS JOURNEY AND I LOVE ALL OF YOU. SO IF ANYONE CAN SUGGEST REALLY GOOD SHAPERS AND BRAS PLEASE LET ME KNOW, I WILL BE IN A 36DD SOON. I'M SO HAPPY I AM GETTING SMALLER AROUND BUT I HAVE ONLY GONE DONE MOSTLY IN THE CUP... I WAS A 44DDD AND NOW I AM A 38DD. WELL, I WILL SAY BYE FOR NOW... SMOOCHES.

                                                                       ALPHALUV1

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6 MONTHS OUT

Sep 12, 2012

 Hello Everyone,
    I would begin by saying I'm so proud of myself. At times it is really hard for me to post as often as I would like, but as I promised I would try and today I am actually doing it. 6 months ago today I made the biggest decision of my life...I TOOK CONTROL AND CLAIMED MY FUTURE! It has not been easy, but I would do it all over. The day of my surgery I weighed in at 268 lbs, I wore a size 20/22 or 2x and my  shoes were a size 8.   


   Today I weigh in at 196, I am size 12( 14's depending on the cut), I wear a large  and my shoes are between a 7 and 7 1/2. I got married to the greatest man last month, my confidence was already through the roof but now it's a force to reckon with. I feel good, I look good and my life is GREAT! Everyday I thank God for the people I have encountered here. There were so many nights I would just stay up and look at the pictures wondering if I could do it too and now I have. I never wanted or do I want to be a 5 or 6..I love my body, my booty, my curves and my waistline. I think for myself I want to be in a 9/10 and I will be satisfied.


   I have started researching surgeons because I am going to have some work done, I am just waiting to get to my one year anniversary, by that time I believe my weight will stabilize some. I think I want to have a tummy tuck, breast lift and injections if I need them, I want my thighs and arms done. I know it's really early but I am a proactive type of woman. Hopefully in a year the list will go down but today the hubby knows what the plan is... AND HAS AGREED TO LET ME HAVE IT DONE  I TOLD HIM I AM GOING TO BE YOUR TROPHY WIFE... SOMEWHAT LIKE ICE T AND COCO HE SAID" YOU ARE ALREADY MY TROPHY WIFE...AWWWW HE IS THE BEST!!!


   I am very happy, I thank God because it is only through him that it is all possible. If I had to leave you all with one thing I would say LIVE, LAUGH & LOVE.... It makes all the difference. Do what it takes to make yourself happy, even if that means someone else may not be. You ;live once and we have all been given a second chance so what you do with it is on you. Well, I must say bye for now, I will upload some more pics soon. Love you all and I wish you all continued success and happiness.


                                                       MRS ALPHALUV1






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SO MANY UPDATES

Sep 10, 2012

 HELLO EVERYONE,
   I KNOW I'M SO LATE BUT I HAVE SO MUCH GOING ON AND I'M SO HAPPY TO FINALLY BE ABLE TO SHARE. AS YOU ALL KNOW I GOT MARRIED LAST MONTH. IT WAS BEAUTIFUL DESPITE THE KINKS THAT HAD TO BE RESOLVED. WELL, WHERE SHOULD I BEGIN.... FIRST THING IS THE WEDDING, WE ARRIVED IN FT. LAUDERDALE AND WERE CHECKING OUR BAGS IN WHEN I NOTICED THE GUY WAS SPLITTING OUR BAGS ON TWO DIFFERENT CARRIERS. I SAID TO HIM, " PLEASE PUT THEM ALL TOGETHER BECAUSE MY WEDDING DRESS WAS IN ONE OF THEM". HE SAID TO ME DON'T WORRY THEY WILL ALL BE AT YOUR CABIN ONCE YOU GO ON BOARD. WELL AS I KNEW IT WOULD HAPPEN TWO OF OUR BAGS WERE MISSING. I STARTED PANICKING AND MY HUSBAND STARTED CHECKING WITH SOME OF OUR GUEST TO INQUIRE IF THEY HAD A BAG THAT DID NOT BELONG TO THEM. IN ANY CASE, ONCE WE WENT TO GUEST SERVICES WE WERE TOLD IT WAS LEFT BEHIND BUT THEY WERE HAVING NOT ONLY OUR BAGS BUT OTHER PEOPLE AS WELL.
   AS I'M SURE YOU ALL KNOW I HIT THE ROOF, I WAS NOT GOING TO GET MY BAGS UNTIL THAT TUESDAY IN MEXICO AND THE WEDDING WAS THE DAY BEFORE IN HAITI. MY HUSBAND IS THE BEST... HE CALMED ME DOWN AND SAID BABY LET'S JUST GET THROUGH THIS AND HE PROMISED TO TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHING. SO WHAT WE ENDED UP DOING IS MAKING IT VERY CASUAL AND I GOT MARRIED IN A SUNDRESS AND MY HUSBAND IN SHORTS. IT ALL WORKED OUT BECAUSE IT WAS ON THE ISLAND AND ALL OF OUR GUESTS WERE PLEASED TO KNOW THEY COULD DRESS DOWN. WELL, ONCE THE WEDDING WAS OVER MY HUSBAND DID WHAT HE SAID HE WOULD DO AND HE LET THEM HAVE IT. HE EXPLAINED TO THEM THAT THIS WAS OUR WEDDING DAY AND WE COULD NOT DO IT AGAIN. PEOPLE, LET ME TELL YOU ROYAL CARRI BEAN IS THE BEST BECAUSE THEY GAVE US ANOTHER EXPENSE PAID VOUCHER THAT WE WILL USE NEXT YEAR FOR OUR 1ST ANNIVERSARY. IN THE END, WE ARE BOTH HAPPY, WE ARE MARRIED AND WE ARE HAVING ANOTHER EXPENSE PAID CRUISE.....
   OKAY, NOW IT'S TIME TO BRING YOU ALL FORWARD, I FINALLY  MADE IT TO ONEDERLAND... I WEIGH 197LBS. I AM IN A SIZE 12 PANTS, LG TOP I STILL HAVE A LONG WAY TO GO BUT, I AM FEELING SO GOOD. I HAVE  47LBS TO REACH GOAL. GOD IS GOOD! I HAVE SO MUCH TO BE GRATEFUL FOR. I'M IN THE PROCESS OF A CAREER CHANGE, SO KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS BECAUSE I TOOK MY CURRENT POSITION TEMPORARY AND NOW I'M NOW NEGOTIATING WITH THAT. ONCE I HAVE A DEFINITE CONFIRMATION I WILL SHARE. OH YES, I ALMOST FORGOT... MY HUBBY SURPRISED YESTERDAY WITH A BRAND NEW CAR, IT IS FULLY LOADED WITH ALL THE BELLS AND WHISTLES. I WILL POST A PIC SOON, BUT AGAIN I HAVE TO SAY GOD IS AWESOME BECAUSE HE CONTINUES TO BLESS HIS BUSINESS. WE REMEMBER TO STAY VERY HUMBLE BECAUSE HE COULD TAKE IT ALL AWAY AT THE BLINK OF AN EYE. SO ALL PRAISES GO TO HIM. I WANT TO THANK YOU ALL FOR BEING THERE FOR ME AND I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST. I WILL NOT STAY AWAY SO LONG AGAIN BECAUSE THERE IS ALWAYS SO MUCH TO CATCH UP ON.

                                                       XOXO ALPHALUV1


   
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It is that time

Aug 11, 2012

 Hello everyone 
Well the time is here and I can hardly believe it. We will pull out on tomorrow morning and  arrive in Labade on Monday everything is in place. I am so excited and Blessed beyond measures. Thank you all for your support, well wishes and most importantly your prayers. Well, I must say bye for now.... There is a mall or boutique calling my name. I'm in West Palm Beach and Worth Avenue is a Minnie Rodero Dr :) 

               Mrs Aldina Alphee ;)
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I DID IT!!!!!!!

Jul 20, 2012

HELLO LADIES, I AM BACK... I KNOW MOST OF YOU ARE AWARE OF THE WEDDING IN 25 DAYS.. AS YOU ALL MAY RECALL, I REALLY WANTED TO BE IN A SZ 12. I HAVE TO ADMIT THAT ALTHOUGH I WAS SO HAPPY WITH MY RESULTS AND WAS HAPPY TO JUST BE OUT OF PLUS SIZES. IN ANY CASE I STARTED DOING MY SHOPPING A WEEK AGO AND I BOUGHT MOSTLY LARGE OR 14's AND SOME 16's IF THEY WERE CUT SMALLER. BUT TODAY I WENT OUT AGAIN AND I ACTUALLY BOUGHT A REALLY CUTE SKIRT FROM AMERICAN EAGLE AND THERE ITEMS RUNS PRETTY SMALL.... BUT I FIGURED IT WOULD BE MY GOAL SKIRT. I GOT HOME AND TRIED IT ION JUST FOR SIZING AND TO HAVE AN IDEA OF MY EXPECTED PROGRESS BUT TO MY SURPRISE IT FITS PERFECTLY! I DID IT! I AM  IN A SIZE 12 AND I AM SO OVERWHELMED. GRANTED, I CAN'T WEAR ALL 12's AT THIS TIME BUT THE BOTTOM LINE IS I AM IN A 12 AND I STILL HAVE 25 DAYS BEFORE THE WEDDING. WOW!!!!!
   I HAD TO COME ON AND TELL YOYU ALL MY GREAT NEWS, OMG.... I CAN BARELY CONTAIN MYSELF. GOD IS SO GOOD AND I OWE IT ALL TO HIM. MY LIFE IS GREAT AND I AM SO BLESSED. WELL, I AM NOT GOING TO STAY  BUT I HAD TO SHARE THIS NEWS WITH MY FAMILY. LUV YOU ALL AND I WILL BE BACK SOON.

                                                             SMOOCHES...ALPHALUV1
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4 MONTHS

Jul 19, 2012

HELLO FAMILY,
    I HOPE EVERYONE IS DOING WELL. I HAVE NOT BEEN COMING ON AS OFTEN DUE TO MY ACCT HAVING SOME SORT OF BLOCK. WHEN I GO TO MY START PAGE I AM NO LONGER ABLE TO ACCESS COMMENTS OR BLOGS, I HAVE CONTACTED TS BUT NOTHING HAS HAPPENED. IN ANY CASE, I DO LOG ONTO YOUR PAGES FROM TIME TO TIME BUT IT MAKES IT SO HARD NOT BEING ABLE TO COMMENT AND ENJOY ALL THE FUN WITH YOU GUYS. SO, IF ANYONE KNOWS HOW TO HELP ME PLEASE DO NOT HESITATE TO LET ME KNOW.
    IN ANY CASE ON THE 12TH OF JULY I AM 4 MONTHS OUT.... I AM FEELING GOOD, LOOKING GOOD( BLUSHING) AND I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS. I AM NOW IN A SZ 14 MISSES, I BOUGHT A PAIR OF SHORTS LAST WEEK THAT WERE A 13 IN JRS. I NEVER THOUGHT THIS WOULD HAPPEN. I AM SO BLESSED BLESSED...YES YES YES! AS MANY OF YOU KNOW I AM GETTING MARRIED NEXT MONTH. I WANTED MY DRESS TO BE A 12, BUT I CAN SETTLE FOR MY 14. IT WAS SO EXCITING DRESS SHOPPING AND PREPARING MYSELF WITH A SEXY WARDROBE FOR IT ALL. IM GETTING MARRIED IN LABADE AND WILL THEN HEAD TO MEXICO BEFORE GOING TO JAMAICA. I WILL TAKE PLENTY OF PICS.
    LADIES, I AM SO HAPPY AND IT IS SO MUCH TO TAKE IN. I STILL FIND MYSELF GOING INTO THE PLUS DEPT FROM TIME TO TIME AND THEN I SAY....WAIT, IM NO LONGER A PLUS. I DO WISH MY BOTTOM WILL GO DOWN SOON. MY WAIST IS GETTING SMALLER BUT MY BOTTOM LOOKS EVEN LARGER. IN ANY CASE, I THANK GOD FOR GIVING ME THIS OPPORTUNITY TO LIVE AGAIN. IT'S FUNNY TO HEAR PEOPLE SAY" UR WAIST IS SO SMALL". I REMEMBER JUST HEARING SMALL WHEN THEY TALKED BOUT MY SHOE SIZE.LOL... IT FEELS SO GOOD! I USED TO HEAR, AWW YOU HAVE A PRETTY FACE....WTH? NOW THEY WILL SAY UR PRETTY AND I FEEL SO ODD BECAUSE I WAS USED TO THE HALF HEARTED COMPLIMENT.
    AS FOR ME MY FIANCE, HE STILL LOVES ME THE SAME AS HE DID BEFORE BURT I CAN SEE HOW PROUD HE IS WHEN PEOPLE ARE CHECKING ME OUT. I ALWAYS SAY TO HIM..."IT'S ALL URS DADDY". LOL. WELL LADIES, I AM NOT GOING TO STAY LONG, BUT PLZ KNOW I SEND ALL MY LOVE TO YOU ALL. I STILL WILL BE JERE, IT JUST FEELS LIKE IM IN THE CORNER ON PUNISHMENT BECAUSE I CANT SEE UR POSTINGS. DON'T FORGET ABOUT ME AND I WILL MAKE SURE TO INCLUDE MANY PICS FROM THE WEDDING.

                                                                       ONE LOVE/// ALPHALUV1
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3 MONTHS OUT, SO MUCH TO SHARE

Jun 13, 2012

 HELLO FAMILY,
   I HOPE AND PRAY THAT EVERYONE IS DOING GREAT. I WANTED TO WRITE A BLOG YESTERDAY WHICH WAS MY 3 MONTH SURGIVERSARY, BUT TIME DID NOT ALLOW. WELL, I WOULD LIKE TO START BY SAYING MY DAUGHTER" KELLYMONET" HAD HER SURGERY TODAY.I AM SO BLESSED TO HAVE HER ON THE BENCH WITH US. SHE IS RESIDING IN SC AND IT TORE MY INTO PIECES THAT I COULD NOT BE THERE 'ISSUES WITH TIME OFF". IN ANY CASE, I WILL BE THERE THIS WEEKEND. I HAVE SEVERAL PEOPLE CHECKING ON HER AND I SPOKE WITH HER NURSE WHO STATES SHE IS DOING GREAT1 I SPOKE WITH HER AND I WANTED TO CRY WHEN SHE SAID" MOMMY, MY BACK HURTS". NO MATTER HOW OLD THEY GET, THEY WILL ALWAYS BE OUR BABIES. I THANK GOD THAT SHE DID NOT HAVE ANY COMPLICATIONS THUSFAR... SO PLEASE KEEP HER IN YOUR PRAYERS FAMILY.
    NOW, FOR THE GOOD NEWS... I AM NOW IN A SZ.14/16 MISSES AND I WEIGH 220. I AM WORKING TOWARDS MY GOAL OF BEING UNDER 200 LBS. I AM GETTING MARRIED IN 7 WEEKS AND I AM DETERMINED TO BE IN A SIZE 12... I HAVE TO BE IN A 12. I STARTED BUYING SOME OF MY FORMAL WEAR AND I BOUGHT 12'S. I CAN DO THIS , I KNOW I CAN AND I WILL........ FAILURE IS NOT AN OPTION! THIS IS CRUNCH TIME

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