Andria A.
Nay-Say THIS!!!
Oct 24, 2009
I am just REALLY tired of people and their damn 2 cents. I didnt say "hey I'm having WLS what do you think." You found out and decided to try and bring me down with all of your bull ish..."But what about all the skin?" "You'll never be able to ENJOY eating anything again." "You're gonna be sooo sorry you did that.""Dont you know that "thing" (the pouch) breaks open?" And tons, TONS more! "OMG, you're doing THAT?!?" Yes fool I'm doing "that" and I DIDN'T ask for your input. My damn cousin today when she found out from another family member that I had been approved and that I am really excited, She was like "lose the weight on your own" I was like ok if I could I would, with all the trying I have done and that YOU have WATCHED me do, you should know that there is a VERY small chance of me getting this weight off and keeping it off alone. She was like "well you know theres more than a 70% chance of you gaining it ALL back." I was like where in the hell did you get your stats from darling? And how many people do you know that have had WLS? Knowing a person or 2 that did it and seeing celebs FAIL horribly doesnt exactly qualify you as having done any effin research! I am just pissed and ranting here, I normally try to stay positive and make jokes about stuff... but this really pissed me off because me and this cousin grew up together and she is older than me, I guess I just look up to her and for her to say something that looks as if she knew it would hurt me just sucks...It almost feels like she wants me to continue to be the fat cousin. But I dont need to seek approval from anyone else. My hubby is great and so are my friends. OH I forgot my FAVORITE ONE, from my mother in law...telling my husband, "Just wait until she has that surgery, shes gonna get skinny and not want you anymore, you'll be right back over here living with me." Ok so she has every right to be a smart ass, but OVER and OVER and OVER?!?!? She's gonna end up freaking my hubby out! But then again this from the same mother in law who told me that his ex girlfriend was just sooooo smart. I'm thinking that she is meaning because she is going for her doctorate at Johns Hopkins University, NO she says that she is soooo damn smart because she left my hubby and went on with her life... WTF?!?!? I just dont understand how you say something like that about someone YOU created. I know it sounds horrid, but If only you knew the whole story you may not think so; but thats another blog for another day and time.. Thanks for listening my OH Fam! ~TiaP.S. I LOVE MY HUSBAND! LOVE HIM LOVE HIM!
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About Me
Baltimore, MD
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26.1
BMI
Surgery
06/15/2010
Surgery Date
Sep 23, 2009
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