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Ok, so the lap band wasn't my friend. I initially lost 40 lbs and then started having issues finding the sweet spot on my fills... and I was throwing up entirely too much. And then the place where I got my fills went out of business... and I slowly started regaining. I regained it all, and then another 35 lbs on top of that. 

So I started looking for alternatives. And then I found the DS - duodenal switch. It sounded scary, but it also sounded like it was exactly what I needed. I liked the lifestyle. I interacted with a lot of DSers and liked what I heard. But I was still kind of scared... 

I took a vacation and had a bunch of pictures done - something that I never do. I looked at myself and realized that I really NEEDED to do something about all the weight. I also wanted to be able to do all the things I used to be able to do. It was time to start researching doctors and planning finances since my insurance wouldn't cover it.

I settled on Dr. Ungson with Mexicali Bariatric Center. He had a stellar reputation and lots of experience. The price was also right. I contacted them in July, knowing I wouldn't be able to go until at least September due to a couple of large projects at work, but explaining that I'd like to go in later in the year. They were helpful and finally I got most of my projects completed so I scheduled for October 3, 2015. Then I got the news that Dr. Ungson had taken a government job and that Dr. Esquerra would be his replacement. I freaked out. Nobody knew this doctor and I couldn't find information on him except that he'd in fact worked with Dr. Ungson in Hermosillo. 

After asking a LOT of questions and doing a lot of soul searching, I decided that I would go for it since Dr. Ungson was one of the best and would not have left his private practice in this other doctor's hands if he had any doubts about the doctor's skill. Someone on another forum was scheduled about a week before me so I decided to wait until she reported back to make a final commitment. It was a few days after surgery that she reported back saying she was ok. It was a definite GO for me. 

My trip to Mexicali was uneventful. I had my pre-op tests and was told I could have anything I wanted for lunch and then a light dinner. I got back to the hotel, fully intending to get me some REAL food (I'd been on the pre-op liquid diet for 5 days!) and promptly fell asleep. I woke up at 10pm, when it was too late to have anything but water. LOL Surgery was uneventful and I was in very little pain at all. Boredom was my biggest enemy right then... good thing I brought a Kindle filled with books and games :) I also watched every single show on BBC about three times each episode LOL 

I had a couple hours to wait before my flight back home and I kind of overdid the walking and started feeling a bit uncomfortable so I took a pain pill. I slept for most of the 2.5 hour flight and for nearly all of the 90 shuttle bus ride back to town. I drove home, left the suitcase in the case (too tired to mess with it) and came in to go to bed. Couldn't sleep in my bed... it was uncomfortable. I slept in the recliner. 

I'm now 13 days out, have lost 13 pounds, and I'm feeling GREAT! I started back to work on the 6th day after surgery and have been working full days since. I telecommute doing IT work so it's very easy to take breaks when I need and even take a nap if I'm tired. I do take lots of naps. So far, the process has been great... I'm on full liquids now and really looking forward to the next stage. Liquids get old after awhile LOL 

So... onwards and upwards! I'm doing extremely well and am looking forward to what the future brings! :) 

It's been quite an eventful two weeks since I last posted. I booked the flight for my eldest daughter, Amber, and I. That at least went without a hitch and I even managed to find a fairly good price for the tickets. I also told my boss that I'd need time off and it was approved immediately.

Then Amber and I went to our sheriff substation to apply for a passport. Since I didn't know I was actually going to go in May, we hadn't applied and time was tight -- we were within three weeks of departure. No problem, I thought. I would just pay to expedite the application. We gathered up our documentation and headed to the community center where we'd apply. We had printed out our applications and all paperwork was in order.

Except... the clerk took one look at our ragged birth certificates -- they'd seen years of folding and unfolding from countless US-Canada border crossings -- and informed us that she simply could not accept them. We would have to get replacement birth certificates. I tried to tell her that we'd made a few border crossings recently and they'd been accepted without question, but she just would not budge. She suggested we use VitalCheck to get our birth certificates and was rather curt when she dismissed us.

Stressed and semi-convinced we'd not be able to go, I filled out the online forms and remitted payment. I saw that the processing time for mine was 3 days... good enough, still enough time. Not so for my daughter, however. She was born in California and the expected processing time was... THREE WEEKS?!?!

I received my birth certificate just shy of exactly two weeks before surgery. I knew I could go to the passport acceptance facility in Seattle once I was within two weeks of departure, so I knew I could get to my surgery in Mexico. But... I did not want to go without my daughter! I checked the online status of Amber's birth certificate obsessively, but it wasn't updated. We were playing a waiting game now.

Finally Wednesday arrived -- I could make my appointment at the passport office. I phoned the automated appointment line, listened to about five minutes of information about the website and finally I got to the part where I could choose the option to make an appointment. Great! I punched in the number and...nothing. The line was dead! I tried again... click. And again... click.

I finally got through -- hooray -- and made an appointment. Unfortunately, after I hung up I realized that I had made it for the same day instead of the following day. Drat. There was no way I could make it, so I got back on the phone and did the call-and-get-disconnected routine. After a dozen more tries, I got through again; I made an appointment for 8am the following morning.

I checked VitalCheck again -- still no update on Amber's  birth certificate. Yikes! I decided that we'd take a chance on her existing certificate. They may not reject it, seeing as we'd never had any problems with it at the border.

We arrived at the passport agency at 7:55am, went through security and promptly took the wrong elevator. We got off, rode another one down, and finally located the proper elevator. We entered the passport office at 8am on the dot.

Amber and I looked at each other and took a deep breath. We stepped up to the information desk and they asked us for our birth certificates. They barely glanced at them, then asked if we had our other ID and pictures. We nodded yes, and they gave us a number and told us to wait.

Three minutes later we were talking to the passport clerk. She looked at Amber's birth certificate and put it in the stack of papers. She smiled and processed my paperwork. We were both sworn. She said we'd have our passports early in the week, with a week to spare before departure date.

I thanked her and told her we had been concerned about the birth certificate. She laughed and said she actually preferred the worn ones -- it proved they weren't fake. She wished us luck and we were off...

So now the big hurdle has been cleared. We'll soon have our passports, the trip is planned and we are on track. VitalCheck STILL has not been updated -- if I am to believe the online status tracker, they haven't even sent the request to California. I'm really glad we decided to take a chance on the existing birth certificate!

It's all like a dream now. I'm just under two weeks out and getting a bit scared, but also very excited. I'm going to have a hard time concentrating next week, but once I get through that, the remaining time will go very quickly.

Now if only we can avoid any further problems... LOL

Today I took an important step -- I scheduled my surgery with Dr. Roberto Rumbaut in Monterrey, Mexico. I was able to schedule much sooner than I had planned -- I talked with the patient coordinator and my first choice of date wasn't going to work and neither was the second. So I took a deep breath and asked about this month. As fate would have it, there were openings late this month. We settled on May 29th.

There's so much to do and there's not much time! I've got to get a passport for myself and for my adult daughter, who will be going with me. I've got to schedule the time off from work, get the iPod loaded up with more videos (and maybe a couple of games), I've got to stock up on the nutrition items I'll need following surgery, etc. I don't even have the flight booked yet, but I'm planning on doing that today.

So far, everyone is supportive. I've told my family and a couple of my co-workers and several of my longtime chat buddies. I know I'll need the support as time goes on.

Am I scared? A bit perhaps. Am I excited! HECK YEAH! I'm ready for the big changes about to happen in my life!