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The Most Amazing Thing Happened Today...
Apr 04, 2009
Out of the blue this afternoon, two of my adult sons called me wanting to use my computer and the two of them showed up at my house completely alone, without all their family members. When I saw them, I knew it was the right time to start taking them into my confidence about my upcoming weight loss surgery. I wanted to take the risk and tell them. It felt right now!
And so, I did!
They were so supportive and understanding!!! They both wanted to know all about it! We watched Youtube VSG videos and I printed them out all the information from ObesityHelp.com about it. They both were very happy to see me taking the risk to do something to get my weight under control and to be healthier!
I think my doing this is giving the both of them courage and hope for themselves in the future, as they, too, have serious weight issues! They both talked about watching me on this journey and maybe coming with me on it down the road!!
I am so glad that God, the Universe, Whoever, put all the cogs into motion that landed us all together at my house this afternoon... It opened a space for intimacy and honesty...and I am so happy that I risked to tell them that I am having wls!
Now I have to tell the others in my family.
Little by little, things are all falling into place...
I am so grateful!
