BumpiestStar
Happy, Confused, Leery ...What to do?
Jun 05, 2011
Someone from my not so far past, contacted me yesterday. We had what I would define as a good friendship with some minor misunderstandings on both sides (nothing serious, just not knowing each other too well, type issues).One day it seemed like we were on the same page and working towards something more substantial and then the next day nothing (and I do mean the next day). No return phone calls, no return text, nothing! He just fell off the face of MY earth. No contact from him in the past 7 months, then out of the blue he contacts me. When I saw that he called and texted me, I was happy to hear from him and hesitant to return his messages, but I did and we talked and he explained that he was going through a really bad point in his life. He had lost his job and felt like a “bum” because he didn’t have a job, so he shut down (his words). He explained that if he is “going through difficult times” he shuts down and shuts out. I understand that people react to stress differently, but how can someone just walk away? We talked and he says he wants to be with me, he expressed this before but yet he still walked away from me. I REALLY like this man and it’s been a long time since I felt this way and I want to be with him and want him in my life (for a VERY long time). He's a good person and I know that I should proceed with caution but I don’t want him to think that I’m being coy , playing hard to get(he really already has me) or just playing games in general. But I can’t help that I feel need to be guarded. I’m I reading more into this than what is really there? I’m I just being silly and I should go for it and see what happens this time around? I’m happy, I’m confused and I’m leery.
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