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Ann M 18 years, 5 months ago

I had the RNY by Dr. Abkin on Tuesday the 15th. Got out of Jefferson on Saturday and had my staples removed today. The first two days were rough, like after any surgery, I guess. But the days have gotten progressively better. Now it is all up to me. I finally had a shake today (my first one - I thought I was still supposed to be on clear liquids) and it tasted awful to me. I had the Designer Whey chocolate with Skim Milk Plus. If anyone has another recommendation, please let me know. Thanks, and best of luck to all the other new people on this road! Ann

Ann M 18 years, 5 months ago

I had the RNY by Dr. Abkin on Tuesday the 15th. Got out of Jefferson on Saturday and had my staples removed today. The first two days were rough, like after any surgery, I guess. But the days have gotten progressively better. Now it is all up to me. I finally had a shake today (my first one - I thought I was still supposed to be on clear liquids) and it tasted awful to me. I had the Designer Whey chocolate with Skim Milk Plus. If anyone has another recommendation, please let me know. Thanks, and best of luck to all the other new people on this road! Ann

ajfree7 18 years, 5 months ago

Hello Mary, I hope all went well for you. Had my WLS on 11/14- came home yesterday around min-day. Feel ok. Yesterday was exhausted, didn't do much other than pee and sleep. Had a rough night- Sleeping was tough, couldn't lay in one position more than an hour. Also, the pain kilklers were giving me a brutal head ache. At 1 AM I decided to try to ride the pain and not take any more. Once the head ache went away I felt better overall. Today was busy, with passing gas (yeah) and the move to full liquid diet. That meant I had to spend tme making my protein shakes, cooking cream of wheat, preparing jello, etc. It takes time to drink all that stuff especially one small sip at a time. That was most of the day. Pain is ok, not too terrible, still mainly gas. Hope you are doing well. Anytime you want to talk send me an e-mail.

TheresaK 18 years, 5 months ago

Congrat's on your surgery and a big warm welcome to the losing side! Best of luck on your new journey. Be kind to yourself for the first few months. Work with your new 'tool' not against it. You will be in my thoughts and prayers as you make your way across to join the rest of us losers! *hugs* Theresa

Afroricansoul 18 years, 5 months ago

Hey Mary, Came across your page, (From NYC/NJ area myself)I just had my surgery a week ago and lost already 15 lbs since 11/7/05 and I am feeling good on this side now. It is a lil rough the first 2 days but after that, the pain slowly goes away and the energy slowly rises. Just want to wish you luck on recovery and can totally understand you not telling people at your job, I am dealing with the same problem I only told like 3 people that I actually know outside of work that I am cool with and everyone else thinks I am on vacation. Best of luck and my prayers are on your side. God Bless. Peace, Love, and Blessings. Dee

PattyMayonnaise 18 years, 5 months ago

Congratulations!!!!! Wishing you all the luck in the world on your journey. (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))

ajfree7 18 years, 5 months ago

Good luck Mary. Is your surgery at Morristown Memorial? If so I may see you on Jefferson I. My surgery is the day before yours.

ajfree7 18 years, 5 months ago

Good luck Mary. Is your surgery at Morristown Memorial? If so I may see you on Jefferson I. My surgery is the day before yours.

Huffy2800 18 years, 5 months ago

You will soon be joining us on the losing side. Good luck with your surgery!

piperkc 18 years, 5 months ago

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Have a speedy recovery Angela in Corpus Christi 291lbs BMI 45.60 -234lbs Dr Michael Grace Open RNY Life began May 16, 2002 I have heard your prayer, I have seen your tears. Surely..I will heal you." 2 Kings 20:5