Dobbie C.
20 mos
May 20, 2009
05/19/2009 - Okay not feeling so positive this month. In fact I would go with kinda peeved! Not about my weighloss but about other peoples reactions to it. I went into the office the other day and not 1 but 3 people came up to me at different times and said that I really should stop loosing weight now because I'm going to start looking bad and that I no longer had any boobs left......yes, that's right....they really said I had no boobs! I actually started defending my bust size by telling people that I was wearing a minimizer bra....how ridiculous is that! What makes people think it's okay (and 2 out of the 3 people are my friends and wouldn't really hurt my feelings on purpose) to just start telling me things about my weight now that I'm at goal. I mean when I was gaining weight, no one came up to me and said "You'd better start loosing weight because pretty soon you're going to start looking bad....oh and by the way, those are some grand tetons you have" They wouldn't have said that to me because that would have been perceived as rude. Why is it not rude on the flip side of the scale??????? Arghhhhhhh! It doesn't help that I went to my support group meeting last month and I was approached by 2 ladies after the meeting who asked me if I'd actually lost #155 pounds because I didn't look like someone who used to weigh that much.....Nice....Not. I mean it's supposed to be a support group meeting. Are you only supposed to go to an AA meeting if you look like an alcoholic.......what does that even mean! Anyway rant over. Hopefully next month I'll have something positive to say....if I'm not having breast implants put in that is!298/308/286/143/150 Start(Consult)/Highest (1 month before surgery)/Op(Day of)/Current/Goal
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About Me
Houma, LA
Location
23.1
BMI
Surgery
09/17/2007
Surgery Date
Feb 15, 2007
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