doreen967
6 Month Update
Sep 18, 2011
My post-RNY life has become so natural to me that I sometimes forget that I had the surgery until mealtimes. I find myself not thinking about it every waking moment like I was just a few short months ago. By my 6 month anniversary I lost 104 lbs and have dropped from a size 30 to a size 20. I have so much more energy and am feeling much more comfortable in my own skin.
In the past every weight loss attempt has been derailed by something in my life. It didn't have to be something bad, just something that got me off my schedule, away from my focus, a distraction that would eventually end up with me gaining all my weight back and more. I have had a major life altering event occur this month which has me more certain than ever that without the surgery I would be derailed and on my way back to 372 lbs. I have found out that I will be laid off my job and will need to sell my house and relocate elsewhere. My life has been in a tailspin, but my diet and weight have not been affected by it for the 1st time in my life. That is an amazing realization. Plus the new smaller self image of myself has given me a big boost in self confidence at interviews, knowing that I will not be viewed as a fat, lazy employee. As a result I have secured a new job already with a great relocation package that will take most of my stress away. I can't tell you how sure I am that the situation would be quite different without my RNY.
I officially met another goal this week. I weigh less than my boyfriend, which has never been the case for our 8 year relationship. He did make it a little easier by gaining about 10 lbs since my surgery, but I would have caught him soon anyway. I am concerned that he is gaining weight by eating the food I am not eating these days. I have talked to him about it but he doesn't seem too concerned. Men seem to be able to hit the gym and drop weight quickly, but I hope he doesn't ignore the problem and let it get out of control like I did. All any of can do is try to offer insight, but just as each of us have had our own journey, he will have to have his too.
That's all I have this month! I need to improve on my exercise, so that will be my goal for next month. Here's to surpassing my expectations over the next 6 months as well. What an amazing ride!
