I remember 6 months ago, sitting in this spot, scared out of my mind, wondering what am I doing???? then, after it was all done I have never been so happy. You will be happy like me, you will be a loser like so many of us and you will be seeing yourself in a totally different way. Congrats to you and your family because this is not a journey you do by yourself. Just remember where this support group is, like me, you will probably need us at all hours of the day and night and we will be here to support you. HUGS...Syl