4 years out

May 31, 2011

It is hard for me to believe it has been 4 years since my surgery.  So much has changed.  4 years ago I was married to an abusive, drug-addicted husband.  I was overwhelmed by life.  I weighed 320 pounds, wore size 4X/28, and could not walk up a flight of steps without gasping for breath.  I was being treated for diabetes, high blood pressure, GERD, high cholesterol and depression.  I was a woman of faith, but had no real hopes, dreams or aspirations for the future.

 

It was my faith and a program of recovery (Celebrate Recovery) which led me to the decision to have gastric bypass surgery. 

 

Within the first year following surgery, I had lost 155 pounds.  I went from a size 28 pants to a size 14; 3x tops to mediums.  I could walk for miles without becoming breathless.  The only pills I took were supplements.  I reached all my goals -- sitting in a bathtub; riding the carousel; wearing heels; etc.  I asked my husband for a divorce, sold our house, and fell in love with an amazing, generous, kind, loving man.

 

Unfortunately, with the good also came certain trials.  While I had planned to help others who struggled with food addiction, instead I became proud and vain.  I stopped going to Celebrate Recovery meetings, Barix support groups, and even church.  I wanted to live life to the fullest -- or what I perceived to be the fullest, making up for lost time, as it were.  I got blindsided by alcohol along the way, developing alcoholism about a year and a half after my surgery.  That took me down hard and fast.  It took 2 years for me to get 90 days sober.

 

Today, while I did have some regain, I have maintained a 135 pound weight loss.  I now attend weekly OA meetings and AA meetings.  I sponsor others who are struggling both with food addiction and alcoholism.  I have 85 days of food abstinence today, and will have a year sober on Thursday.  I have learned the importance of recognizing and dealing with my emotions as they come up.  I continue to develop a relationship with my Higher Power and to maintain my recovery using the 12-Steps. 

 

The most important thing I can convey to people is that God met me exactly where I was, but He sure didn’t leave me there.  Even through all the difficulties, trials and struggles, I have received immeasurable gifts of recovery and healing.  I have been given the ability to have hopes and dreams again.  I, along with all of you, have become uniquely useful to those who struggle with obesity and food addiction.

 

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About Me
Croydon, PA
Location
31.5
BMI
RNY
Surgery
05/31/2007
Surgery Date
Jan 17, 2007
Member Since

Before & After
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Had RNY in May 2007
290lbs
Maintaining a weight loss of 140 pounds.
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