7-13-09 - 8 weeks post op

Jul 13, 2009

Well hello people!  I can't believe tomorrow will be 2 months since I had the surgery and I just love my tool.  I am down 52 lbs since I started the crazy journey as I like to refer to it as.   I am so excited.  I wanted to be down 50 by the 4th of July but I worked on a up and down stall for the first two weeks of the month and then this morning BAM!! this morning 3 lbs gone and over the hump.

I had a really great weekend.  I thought it was going to be a difficult one because my ex broke up with his girlfriend.  Yes the one he cheated on me with 7 years ago and now he "can't take our kids for his weekends because it is just really bad" and he is looking for a new place to live but that is going to take time.  So for right now I have lost my non mommy weekends for a while and I have to say that I feel bad for him and pissed off at both of them because even 7 years later they are still screwing with my life.  A life I put past me and moved on from and was very happy too.   

Well anyway a mutual friend of ours was a having a block party and she invited both of us so he could see if his kids and spend time with them.  Well he spent a total of 2-1/2 hours with them and then went off to a dinner engagement he made after he told me he wasn't going to take his kids.  Well this made me a little upset. 

But I got over it when a cute boy,  yes I said boy (24 years old) walked up to our friend's house and said hi my name is Chris.  Well Chris is a long time friend of the friends that I was at.   And of course did I say that I was a little over dressed for the block party.  Because since I have lost the weight I had to make sure I was looking good in the outfit I was wearing, again since the ex was going to be there also.  LOL!!  Well Chris and I flirted all night long.  We played drinking games. Yes everyone drank beer and I was drinking water.  Which is so much fun.   Well needless to say, I was Mrs. Robinson on Saturday night and I think that I like the fact that I could have a little boy toy in my near future.  We had a great time together and I might just continue to play. 

Wow it is just amazing how your confidence goes up in just a little bit of time.  I would have never thought that I would be attracted to a younger guy, but hey I guess the Puma is coming out now.  LOL

Have a great week and I will check in soon. 

Love all you guys.

Jenn

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