3 years later...

Feb 05, 2010

Hello all,

As per the request of the founder, I am writing to provide follow up 3 years post-op.  Though this journey has been filled with a lot of ups and downs, I can tell you, I am no  longer obsessed with my weight, food, and how I look anymore.  I am no longer saddened when invited out because I surely won't find anything to wear that will look good.  I don't dread shopping, but have become quite the clothes-horse.  My quality of life in that regard has improved immensley.  I wish I could say I have turned into an exercise/running machine (like some of my counterparts - shout out to Kirsten, Kevin, & Monica), but that wouldn't be true.  I can say, however, I don't avoid walks, hikes, and outtings that would have been an overwhelming prospect in the past.

My weight has been stable for over 2 years now and I weigh in at around 139 these days.  I have a range of plus or minus 2 pounds.  Given my starting point of 285, I am thrilled with the results of the surgery.  I went from a size 22-24 to a size 8-10.  Sure, I'd love to get rid of this extra skin I carry around - to close the chapter on my past obesity for good, but that isn't an option financially.  I have seen friends transform their bodies, minds, and lives over the past three years, and love the confidence I see evolve in the process. 

This surgery doesn't come without its difficulties which leads to the age old mantra of many of us "they operated on my body, not my mind".  I caution newbies about addiction transferrance.  Talk to your doctor and be aware of obessive/excessive patterns that may develop post-op. 

Overall - I will say that I have a new peace of mind after WLS.  My confidence has increased 1000 fold.  My perception is that I am truely judged on the content of my character versus the external facade... I would not change my choice to have this surgery and hope that those of you who choose to move forward on this path find happiness, peace, and self-love in the process.  It isn't all about your appearance, we have to stop the negative self-talk we have fed ourselves for years.  Do the work and you'll be happy you did!  Love to my OH family!

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