NaomiF
One year later
Jul 03, 2009
I guess this has to be a true testament of the faith and trust I have in this gentleman. A "botched" job on one's body can be hidden by clothes, but the face? (By the way, he did an excellent job on the body.) Well, that takes having confidence in the ability and skill of this doctor to place myself in his hands.
It was by no means a walk in the park. I was swollen and bruised around my eyes and neck, and of course my first reaction was "eep, what have I done?" As the next few days passed, and after seeing him for my first post op visit, I can see a dramatic change. The swelling is going down and the bruising is clearing up, and from the way things are looking right now, I am very pleased with the result. Moreover, when I see him and his reaction, I feel better and better.
As soon as I have all my before and after pictures done, I will post them. I am so happy and grateful to have found this very wonderful surgeon who has helped me so much.
I survived my first 5K
May 10, 2009
Well, it wasn't easy. About half way through, I was sure I wasn't going to make it. My knee though sore, was not the problem. My right hip was aching. I walk off balanced due to my left leg being bent (can't straighten it). I entertained thoughts of stopping at the first aid tent and asking to be shuttled back. My companions (Jean, Rhonda, Lori and Rhonda's son Mike) were supportive and encouraging. They walked with me and offered to make sure I got a ride back if that was my decision. Then I saw the 2 mile marker, and something inside me said I had to keep going.
We turned the corner for the home stretch back to the finish. And I crossed the finish line with my fellow walkers (we crossed in a line with our arms linked together). It was an awesome feeling to know I did it. But more than that, I was in the company of an amazing, wonderful group of friends. The people I have met on this site are awesome. Thank you Jean, Rhonda and Lori for a day I'll never forget.
The Journey Continues
Apr 26, 2009
But even beyond the physical reasons for losing weight, I began to understand that on a mental or emotional level I needed to do this as well. I hated the person I saw looking back at me in the mirror. She was not happy and looked very little like the person I used to be. I guess after several years of being fat, I tried to fool myself into thinking that was my lot in life now.
So now almost two years post RNY (well, two years this July) and almost one year post plastics (June 2008), I see a different person looking back at me in the mirror. She is smiling more. She feels good. She likes to go shopping for clothes. She likes going out with people. She is a happier person. No, life is not perfect. The struggle continues to maintain the weight loss. The problems of the real world still exist, but are no longer so oppressive that food becomes a refuge. I know I need to be vigilant and stay focused, and so my journey continues on course.
Everyday I thank God, my family, friends and my trainer for the support I have received to get where I am now. And if that isn't a big Wow, I don't know what is. To all of you traveling this same road, I send you all my love and support.
It's Been a While
Feb 28, 2009
For anyone starting down this path, take one step at a time, and know this. There are a lot of people who have walked that same road, who you will meet, who know the challenges you will face and will be there to hold out a helping hand. Don't be afraid to reach out.
Just an update
Oct 29, 2008
Post Plastic Surgery
Jul 31, 2008
How quickly a year goes by
Jul 09, 2008
Been a While
Mar 26, 2008
I have lost 81 lbs to date since my surgery. I feel wonderful and have turned into a "gym rat" as my brother likes to call me. This has done so much for me as I feel so fit now. I recommend this highly to anyone. My trainer has been the best. He pushes me along without "shoving" and I have "muscles" now to show for it where before was flab and fat. Having said that, I am now contemplating a little surgical help for those areas that exercise cannot fix. Kind of scary, a big step towards finishing this whole "remake" of myself.
Jeans!
Oct 20, 2007
I never thought I would be able to wear jeans...I had a pair of jeans that were so large that I figured the best i could do was to hope to lose a couple of sizes so that the legs wouldn't be so baggy. I needed the large size so I could fasten and zip them up.
I went shopping a couple of weeks ago and tried on a pair of size 16's and was so happy that they fit, that I also bought a pair of 14's to wear later on. I wore the 16's to work and found that I had more room in them than I thought when I bought them, so I went home and tried on the 14's, hoping I could get them zipped up and fastened. OMG! They fit! I never thought I would be wearing pant sizes in the teens.
It is such an amazing feeling. LOL! Well enough rambling...
I am so amazed...
Aug 31, 2007
I have lost about 43 lbs to date and losing at rate I never thought possible. It is such a feeling to have people walk by and not recognize you. I'm just amazed.