"I had been reading all over the net about this RNY surgery. A couple friends at work had the surgery and it seemed like this was my answer. I have always been a big person all my life, I accept the fact that I am big and have certain restrictions. Sometimes I think people are uncomfortable around me becuase I can talk candidly about my weight problem.
What made me decide to have this surgery? I noticed friends and coworkers doing things for me( ie, getting me a glass of water, going to the printer for me, going to restaurants where I fit in the chairs better) I had a wake up call and decided I needed to check this out.
I had my first consultation with Dr. Sooriash about 3 weeks ago. I was very scared, I thought it was funny that his office had small chairs with arms ( I was hoping they would have couches as most people that come in there are huge like me right? ) .. Anyway, I met the doctor with my life partner, Phil. I have to admit, Dr. Sooriash is very abrupt and direct. I was in tears. I am the type of person that cries easily and yes, this was no different. I felt as if he condemned me for being this fat. I weighed in at 494 lbs and 5ft 11. and 32 years old.
His bed side manner is exteremly lacking, but his honesty is very much appreciated. He wants me to lose 94 lbs before he will do the surgery. He advised me to do the 1200 calorie diet , and exercise every single day. He aswered all of my questions - of course I was hoping he would tell me when the surgery date is - but got to lose the 94 lbs first. I appreciate the fact that he did not rush me or treat me like I was stupid for asking questions. He used every day terms with me and didn't act as if he was better than me or anyone else ( some doctors have a tendency to do that!!)
I left his office still upset with his poor mannerism but confident that I can do this. I started this diet of 1200 calories and it seems to be working . I have alot of leg swelling so I can not do alot of exercises but I am walking every day and also doing Richard Simmons "Sweatin to the Oldies".
I discovered this website and feel alot better that I see Dr. Sooriash lack of personality is normal and everyone had that same experience. I was considering seeking out another doctor, but thanks to this site, I think he is exactly what I need. I do not need a nice doctor, I need an upfront honest doctor that can help me help myself.
My next appointment with Dr. Sooriash is March 4 2003. I sure hope I get some really good news. I need some!"
