Rhia, I suggest that you head for the nearest health store for your menopause supplies. There are some great natural remedies on the shelves, but be sure and go someplace where they have sales people who know what they are talking about. Since I had a complete hysterectomy, I have to take estrogen, but I also take Evening Primrose Oil to STOP the night sweats, and they help with the hot flashes, too. I have a friend who uses natural remedies, and she is having a lot of success. Good luck with the job hunting, too. Connie in WA