sisnraf
This is not really my story this is the person who inspires me My MOM!
Mine to is my mom! WOW what a GREAT person. She has 2 biological kids me and my brother and 2 adopted kids my half sister from my dad and boy that was a foster child one of the 20 something she has had over the years. Her and my dad always wanted 4 kids but after me the Doc told her she could not have any more and by some freack thing 5 1/2 years later she found she was pregnat with my brother and had stage 4 cancer she was24 y/o. She had the cancer froze week through out her pregnacy and had my brother and went stright to the OR to have the cancer remover by the grace of GOD She made it! She raised me and my brother on her own for years and never took food stamps welfare nothing worked 2 and 3 jobs and still manageed to keep our house spotless and be at all our ball games!! I really don't know how she did it. Her and my dad had the worlds BEST divorce much better divore than marriage. Proving it is not always best to "stay together for the kids" She finally married my step dad He is wonderful he did not have any kids. Treats us like we are his. My dad had a daughter by another "NUT" women and she totally misstreated her my mom and step dad tried to adot her then but her mom said no finally 5-6 years later me and my dad got custody of her and my mom took over the mother role for her she call my mom Granny and my step dad Uncle FUNNY huh All during this time after me and my brother where out o fHigh school they had foster kids then we had 3 we wanted to adopted and they took them away back to there grandparents, It broke all our hearts, so we stopped getting foster kids for a while and did not want to do it any more and the indian welfare called and said they had a 2 1/2 week old baby the mother left at the hospital and she had already lose custody of 4 other kids so they knew she didnot want this one and they where having trouble placing him because he was biracal. 1/2 indina 1/4 white 1/4 black. Well needless to say we live in RURAL Oklahoma NO NO black kids in our school no black s in our town there is literally a town about 5 miles out of town where most of the black people here live. The caseworker knew our family well and knew we where not the least bit pregested sp??? Can not even spell it ha But did not know if we wanted to do it and get so attached again. So we talked about it as a family and decied to take him! We decided if we took him it was with the intent to adopt him and we did! we have had him since he was 3 weeks old we love him like our own there is no difference between any of us except he is more spoiled than me and my brother ever where cuz he gets from all of us. he is 9 years old goes to school in our town and so do several other black kids. I don't know if he even realizes he is diferent other than my twin say there uncle is Choclate and they are vanilla HAHA but most of my family are dark indian so it don't mater to us. When my dad died of cancer she and my stepdad took truns helping me stay with him and watch the kids. Her an my step dad and my dad where a triple parenting unit all kids of divore should be so lucky!! Anyway If I can be HALF the Mother she is WOW MY kids are blessed. I have been so lucky to have her and my whole family to have that kind of UNCONDITIONAL love in you life is the best gift god can give you! I got it twice with my family and my husband! Yea YEA SAPPY I know!!!
