Really irritated by BEST FRIENDS

Jun 16, 2014

I am going to be a hag for a moment.  Thought I would check to see if anyone had wrote to me.  I am going to start doing this more.  I have more time now.  Someone posted that her Best Friend had surgery and is too thin bla bla bla.  She is worried about her on and on.  I do realize there are people once in a while that take it too far.  I have only seen 2 in 10 years of being on OH.  Now, my experience with good friends.

Most of these suppose to be good friends were overweight themselves.  I never reached a point when they said you look perfect.  It was always, you have a way to go to get there, then all of a sudden they thought I looked like death warmed over.  Yes, for a bit I did go overboard.  I was down to 103.  That is why pictures are so important.

Before you have surgery looking in the mirror you don't realize how big you are.  I knew I was overweight but certainly didn't think I was a cow.  I look at my before picture and I was a cow.  I can't believe my husband could even find me sexy.

Your body does go through a spell when you might get a little underweight.  If it does then you need to gain a little.  You can look at photos and be able to tell. 

You good friends that worry so much just sound jealous when you tell us we look to thin.  It made me want to get thinner.  So, if you really are a good friend take pictures.  Your friend can see how she looks.  

Your body seems to go through a final adjustment period at about 2 years.  Thats when I finally set my weight at 123.  I still have to watch it.  Sometimes it goes up a pound or so.  I know then it is time to slow down.  If I get to low eat higher calorie things to get back up there.

Hey, I have a wardrobe now and I want it to fit.  I try to stay where my clothes fit well.  If your friend does as they should and have blood work and see's their doctor.  The doctor is the one who should tell them they are too thin NOT YOU.......

I realize my avitar photo I am too thin but if you look at my photos now I think I am just right.  Sorry I usually try to have positive blogs but this was a pet peeve when I had surgery.  Or, when people say I took the easy way out. 

You know what.  I was a dumper and never knew what would make me dump.  It is the worse feeling in the world.  I am glad I dumped because it was usually when I ate something I shouldn't of.  I wanted to take a photo of me puking my guts up and post it.  THIS IS THE EASY WAY OUT. 

I promise my next post will be nicer.  If you are getting ready to have surgery good luck.  You will find out who is your real friend.  Who has so much jealousy in them they don't know what to do.  The friends that tell you how good you look and how proud they are  of what you did to get healthy are the real friends.

Brenda

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