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Hello everyone it has been a while since ive been on so much has happened to me emotional physically and spirtually. But God is Good so I wont complain. I'm down to 234 and holding wanna hit the 200 mark and be done. But now im pregnant yes and my baby well grown up lil mama will be 18 next month on 3.8.11 thank you lord for being so good. I will update with some photos as well. If you are on facebook you can find me under Tamika Burden and theres lots of photos on there as well. Thank you xoxoxoxoxo.. ttyl

I know its been a while and im trying to get my photos updated in which you all will love these photos.. I know i have now made way to really launch my plus size model career. I was in Miami Beach , Florida for memorial day weekend and had a blatt .. Alll i can say is that IT was raining men hahahahaah i had a nice time and im living life again and it feels great. This summer we will be in Raleigh, Va at the beach, Jamaica, Carowinds.. Oh its gonna be a hot one. Im still single and loving it. With the weight loss came also a lot of the bull crap had to go as well. I have set standards that I will not break for anyone. Im down into a 13-14 and i must say im done. I need to tone up and i figure that would make me like a solid 12 .. please not a ten ... but what the lords has in stored for me it will happen. What i cant beleive alllll the haters I have grown to have. I mean people want me to be big headed telling me i shop too much, im this , im that ,, hahaahah by beat it im cool and loving me.. I never once acted or act like im the one. But im happy for me and it will show. Heck i was 404 and now im 247. You better no im on cloud nice. But other than that having fun, living, loving life, and ready to TONE UP.. ANY ADVICE

Just wanted to say Happy Mother's Day to all my Oh family and friends. May your day be blessed with Love, Kindness, and lots of Mother Day Gifts. Have a blessed day!

 Without the world of great Mothers. Life would be so much harder. Ladies congradulations on all of our success and for being wonderful Mothers to our great future. Even though the kids challenge you sometimes. It's all worth it. 

I just wanted to share something I was not able to do or try until now: 

1. to cross my legs and feel really comfortable.
2. to make my mother really proud she was very supportive of her daught but now you can tell the happiness is so sincere. i love love love you mommy and thanks for putting up with your spoiled daughter.
3. my daughter is proud of her mommy not that she wanst before but you can tell that head be big when i show up at school.. mommy loves you we will rock the world one lbs and a time.
4. to be picked up and walked around passionetly without spilling to much hahah
5. to be able to run , walk fast and not breath like im having a heart attack/ 
6. to be able to fit in any car and be comfortable in the front or back
7. to be happy and to live life and not feel trapped/ 
8. to be able to wear a 16 really a 14 but im a work in process
9. to know i have a fighting chance to live a longer happier life
10. I have moved closer to God and he is so so good. 

Love you all and will update you again.. Oh everyone please please remember my birthday its MAY 22< 2008 thanks god bless you all 

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I want to take this time to thank Auntie Vel and Marlene Henderson. Vel you are the best support girl that I could of ever have asked . You are so friendly, nice loving an caring. Words really cant even describe you and where you get all this love from to share. You have been there not just on a weight loss level but on any level. You have been there even when we talked about the same things over and over again never changing your tone. I cant even write this memo without getting choked up becuase girl you got soemthing special about you and dont ever lose it .. I love you girl and thank you. 
 Mrs. marlene what would I have done if god hadnt sent you to me. You have been there from the beginning and your loving and caring and that will never go unnoticed. You have shown me and pave the tunnel for happiness and that you have brought back into my life just from sharing the news, the website, the doctors, all the months and now years of information. We will have that special celebration Ive been so promising you . I thank you for understanding and showing me real sister love. I thank you as well these two ladies i consider my aunts guys they keep me grounded and in check. I could ask for a better pair. Life is good life is great. 
I want to thank all all the extended friends who have offered to me my oh friends. let keeps in tough. i thank you for all your encouraging words and we will change the way the world treat us one pound at a time.. 

I have had guys hit on me that was 22 24 25 i know i have lost the weight but am i really trying to do the usher and tamika or the demit and ashton hahahahah well you never know.

Hello to all my Oh family I just couldnt wait and I will have some more pictures but these were the ones I could get up for you guys now. Well i moving and loving life. I am blessed and will not complain. Life has been good to me and I have helped so many people recognize there potential with losing weight whether it was a work of encouragement or advise. The weight loss is unbelieveable even to this date. Hahahaha I have always dreamt of being in a 14-16 never thought i would be living it. Well my 16 are getting loose now so I said i should be in a 14 by my birthday.. hahahahah whats else is funny I have always been 5'8.5 and now im 5'8 and my feet are even losing weight no longer need nothing wide even when my feet may swell a little bit. Ok now for my love life is in the making im just enjoying life..at this stage in my life im very picky and will not be treated like freshmeat. So when men gulp over me it annoys the heck out of me and maybe I shouldnt be that way but im like im the same person even though i know im not body size wow. It also angers me when people be so extra nice and want to go above for the beautiful women. Well hell I was beautiful last year as well. But dont get me wrong I love the attention my heart crys for the obese because we are treated like handicap people and I now see that. 

IM SO SORRY FOR THE DELAY WITH MY UPDATE AND INFORMATION. WELL HEALTH WISE IM BLESSED AND FINE. I JUST HAD A WOW MOMENT I CAN FIT INTO A 16 YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSIM SO EXCITED AND I ONLY WANTED TO BE A 14. NOW IM IN PARANOID STAGE AHAAHAHAHAH IM NOT EVEN A YEAR OUT. BUT I WONT COMPLAIN. LOVE LIFE IS ON THE SLIDE UP AND DOWN. BUT AMEN TO MY MAN UPSTAIRS HE IS SO FAITHFUL TO ME ITS NOT FUNNY. SO PATIENCE IS WHAT I HAVE LEARNED TO DEVELOP. I HAD WENT BACK HOME AND IT WAS SO NICE. SOME PEOPLE HATED ON MY OF COURSE... SOME LOVEDDDDDDDDDD THE LOOK LIKE DAMMMMMMMMM.. SOME WAS LIKE HAPPY CRYING IM LIKE AWWWWWWWW THANK YOU. I EVEN SEEN MY EX WHO SUPRINGLY WAS HAPPY AND THRILLED.. I KNOW YOU WAS HAHAHAHAHAH. BUT IM HAPPY AND IM TIRED I JUST GOT BACK FROM MY TRIP TO COLDDDDD BUFFALO HOWEVER IT WAS FUN THOUGH... WELL UNTIL THE NEXT TIME PLEASE POST I MISS MY FRIENDS. AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH. PICTURES WILL BE UPDATED SOON. 

Hello to my wonderful family,
      Had to come an update you guys on whats been going on. For starters i got into a 1x shirt and was estatic and the shirt is still too big. Now thats a shocker I can remember grabbing a 1x and feeling like my hand was too bigggg. Ok well anyways one of my best friends had a party in atlanta for his birthday, andI have to say I had fun like it was mine ok.. I had men flocking to me and its crazy because its not like i didnt have a great social life before but i can definetly say it was a different type of man , or men i should say. Its almost like comparing bottom shelf liquor and top shelf hahahah. But I didnt let it get to my head one thing I did notice is all eyes were on me meaning the people who havent seen me in a while was with the wow factor you know. I have some pictures but i want yaw to see the pictures i for some reason cant find the camera but i have some photos i had sent to my phone so its cool. Also i was able to wear my shoes allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll night without say oh ouch oh my feet hurt you know. And i dont regret being big because people always say my feet hurt, my back and you be looking at them like how. But to be Big and Know they really hurt and to compare them to not hurting is PRICELESS. To all my family , yes i eat candy, everyday nope, yes i drink juice everyday nope, were not perfect but we have been blessed with this tool and I will not abuse it every again in life. I want to walk on the light side of life and its feels great. 

Hello to my oh family I hope all is well during the holiday season and any day for that matter. Well as promised I have posted my new pictures from the R.kelly concert. Not to mention I was on stage with R.Kelly Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.  Buy anyways I have almost hit my 100 lbs mark 2 miserable stubborn pounds hahahah but its ok. Im excited im moving into a size 18 comfortably and is really trying to get down to a 14 by the summer for miami so we will see. Nothing has been really going on im just dating right now, I dont know if its me or not but men really be getting on my nerves  right now. I do have some very nice gentleman in my life but I have to take it one day at a time ya know. But im happy and loving and living life. I do have one comfession , I havent wore a dress since 18 and let alone a skirt and felt happy about it . The night of the concert I felt like I was the star of the show and when i say we had a boss time it was out of control ok. 

Hello my oh family, I glad to say all i ate on thanksgiving was turkey, greens, and a piece of small sweet potatoe pie, it was great to actually watch everyone eat and enjoy themselves and to know I will not be gaining any weight. I have posted some new photos and will have more oh and i didnt tell you guys I had went to the R. Kelly concert and got on stage and stepped in da name of love I had so so much fun and I will have the photos for you tommorrow. But I will let you see what I had on once I Post the pictures ok for now enjoy and I will talk to yous later have a blessed day.