Onward and Downward
Oops, I did it again.
Nov 04, 2012
Monday morning, Day 20 of Optifast, and two days before surgery! Just having my morning Optifast and reading OH.
A couple of hours ago, I was home alone at one of my parents' homes. I was getting a bit hungry, so I wandered into the kitchen, and darned if there wasn't a big bag of tortilla chips there! So I poured myself a big bowl of them and sat on the couch and started mindlessly eating them.
After eating about half the bowl, I realized - I'm three days away from surgery! I can't do this! Oh no, my dream about messing up Optifast is coming true! Now there might be food in my stomach when they go in! Damn, damn, damn! How could I forget?? Should I try to vomit it up? Should I take a laxative? Should I just tell them I forgot and made a mistake and hope they don't cancel my surgery? I was in a panic.
And then - I woke up. Another one of those dreams! And this one felt even more real than the last one, because I remembered the last dream IN THIS DREAM! I was so relieved when the realization dawned on me as I was waking up that I didn't mess up after all.
I can't wait until surgery, if only to stop having these dumb dreams!
And now, a good Opti coping story while AWAKE. On Saturday night I went to a fundraiser dinner and dance. I went into more detail about it in this OH thread, so no point in typing it all out again. But suffice it to say, I went, didn't (ch)eat, focused on dancing and conversation, and had a great time! And it wasn't anywhere near as hard as I thought it would be - in fact, it wasn't hard at all. The worry I was feeling beforehand was a lot worse than the reality. I just planned ahead, drank an opti shake on the way there, brought some OXO powder in case I wanted it while others were eating, and it was pretty much a breeze.
I spent yesterday doing housework at intervals, and also making a birthday card to bring today for someone at work. So I feel like I accomplished quite a bit. The house really needed it - I've been in a housekeeping funk and I live with a packrat (to put it mildly), so if I don't keep up on it, then the place looks like a disaster. Now it isn't quite so disastrous.
Today and tomorrow - training the person who will be temporarily replacing me at work, getting my will signed, going to the drug store to fill a prescription that I didn't get to yesterday, and that I need before surgery, and finishing cleaning the bathroom. And probably a hundred other things that I can't remember right now.
I'll end by noting: after all these blog posts over the last three weeks, today was the first time I used the tag, "surgery". Didn't even think of it before. Not sure what that says about my mindset!