Jessica H.
Introduction
Feb 10, 2013
Hi There! I'm Jessica. I'm a 27 year old college Grad, who majored in Marketing and minored in Art History. I love watching movies, reading, playing board games, hanging out with friends, cooking, baking, shopping, etc. I'm a big music lover. I listen to just about everything. I love discussing philosophy. I consider myself to be artistic and creative.
I have a good life. At least on paper.
The thing is, I have been battling depressing for the majority of my adult life. I have had a lot of ups and downs as a result. I believe I have my depression under control. I take medication and don't feel overwhelmed by it anymore.
While I feel like I am past that dark place, I have some pretty big scars. They are preventing me from really living fully. The scars are metaphorical but they did kind of manifest physically. When I went through the worst of my depression I gained about 80 pounds in 6 months. I have since slowly gained more and more weight, and currently weigh roughly twice what I weighed when graduating high school.
Don't get me wrong, I've tried a lot of things to lose weight. I've done weight watchers, diet pills, patches you put on your arm to stop cravings, Over Eaters Anonymous, and joined gyms I never attended. Weight Watchers worked the best out of the things I've tried, but I never got much success because I am an emotional/compulsive eater. I think weight watchers is a great program for people who are able to follow a diet. The problem I would have is that when I over-ate, I stopped tracking my points. I didn't want to admit that I failed. And when I messed up my points at lunch, I would give up for the rest of the day. And I would cycle through this for months. Diet pills didn't work, or made me feel I had an excuse to eat more than I would otherwise. Diet patches were a joke. And finally, the gym is still a great choice but I would never go and then feel guilty about it.
So what now?
I really don't think I can do this on my own. I am looking into my options, and really think that weight loss surgery might be my best option. Obviously it's extremely terrifying and I never thought that I would get to that point. But - here I am, completely out of control, and don't have very many options.
This blog is going to be a very personal journey mostly addressing my weight issues and how I'm going to take charge of my life again.
xJ