Time DOES fly when you are having fun!

Jan 06, 2010

Time DOES fly when you are having fun!

Whomever first said that time flies when you're having fun, was not exagerrating. Since my surgery, I've been getting out more and actually enjoying the city that I was born and raised in. Is it weird that I never really explored it? I found a group of friends that enjoy visiting different restaurants, and hangouts in the city and it's been great. I'm like a tourist in my hometown!
So, now I am below my goal weight. I could probably stand to lose 10 more pounds but I am truly happy where I am at on the scale and don't feel self conscious about my body so I am really not at all worried about it since I AM Happy and that is all that really matters.
The boyfriend of almost 10 years is gone because the secure man that I once knew left the building! He became totally insecure and accused me of cheating with a co-worker of his that lives in another city. That was weird in itself because he knew that I didn't care for him to do business with that person and then to accuse me of that, made things that much worse. He looked through my phone and found nothing but yet accused me because of what someone else told him. My guess is that whoever he was in conversation with, must've told him that his co-worker maybe said I looked nice because of my weightloss and then he let his mind go crazy from there. It was hard but I can't see myself under constant scrutiny because of his insecurities. Not even when I was overweight was I that insecure.
And yes, I know that some may think that it was his own guilty conscience but I can honestly say that he was 100% faithful...just alittle insecure once he noticed that others were paying more attention to me. However, that was his problem, not mine.
Well, Happy New Year to you all! I will set a reminder to come back more often!

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San Antonio, TX
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10/27/2008
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