Negative Comments

    I always had one, but after losing, I'd be sitting or laying down and it constantly felt like I was sitting on something.  I was always checking my bed, thinking my youngest had left some little toy or trinket there.  Turned out it was my bones!  So, if you had a butt before, you'll probably get one back, though smaller, like the rest of you!

Seriously, WTF.  With friends like that, who needs frenemies? ;-)

She is just used to seeing you very heavy, and may have her own image issues.  It's HER problem, not yours.

Sorry if it's sounds harsh.  But the "I'm only trying to help" crowd are usually doing the opposite. I'm very glad it didn't derail you. You're doing AWESOME  :-)

Thank you all for the support and encouragement. You all are the best!!!!!

Jealous much?  Wow, what a crazy and insensitive remark!  You are absolutely correct to ignore this.  Best of luck to you on your continued success!

Green is not her color

She said yo look like you're on crack? One of my favorite comedians says, "Ever notice all crackheads have great abs?" 

This woman was simply admiring your fab abs. Alright aright alriiiiiight.

She is very clearly having a conversation with herself in your presence.  It has NOTHING to do with you, and good for you for seeing that!  Call it a NSV and be done with it.

I started getting comments like that as I approached my lowest weight, and I probably did look a little drawn out.  If you start to get self-conscious about it, know that your body will bounce back and redistribute the weight in year 2.