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bigdog80
on 7/30/08 2:53 am
Topic: RE: Your most embarrassing moment as a jolly old fat man

About 6 years ago I was heading out on a business trip, flying Southwest Airlines.  Now I'd been flying them for over 2 years already and made a regular 1-2 times per month trip with no problems.  Occasional looks from seat mates when they had to cram in next to me on crowded flights but otherwise no issues.  Knew enough about their seating program to get to the line early and insure an aisle seat.

Checking in and going onto the plane when the business agent pulls me aside and says I have to buy two tickets to ride the plane.  I take up space for two people so I need to pay for two tickets!  I was furious but had to travel so I paid for the second ticket.  By the time he was done with the credit card and issuing my ticket went onboard the plane to find no seats (two together) so the friggin' flight attendant had to bump some people to get me two seats together.  I was so mortified, every time someone came down the aisle and motioned for the empty seat I had to tell them it was taken...by the other half of my ass hanging over the seat.

I've never flown Southwest since then.

Still fly a lot, in fact so much taht I regularly get bumped up to first class so seats/size haven't been an issue.....and now since the surgery I can fit in any seat!! Whoo hoo!!!

Still get a seat belt extension on most flights but the buckle and clip are now only a few inches from each other.....I hoping for the next big fart to be the "extensions.....I don't need no stinkin extensions!!!" moment.

JIM


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 6/27/08 9:34 pm
Topic: RE: International travel: Meds and precautions

Anybody done any travel overseas and had to deal with malaria meds? Any issues with maladrone and the pouch?  Have to go to India for business trip and am concerned about food choices and "travelers revenge" in view of modified RNY plumbing.

 

Any thoughts, experience, advice welcome1

Thanks,

Bigdog80


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 6/20/08 1:44 am
Topic: RE: 2 Years Out

Dan,

You look great and should be proud of the accomplishment.  The old Dan is still a valid reference point for people to see and deal with you on a personal level.  They compare new Dan to old Dan and see a big delta change (for the better)

Give it a little more time, maybe another year or so and the reference people will use will be the current one...they'll stop seeing the big change and just notice you for being you.

It sounds corny and trite but you veterans continue to be the type of example us newcomers need to see.  It helps us keep focused and realize there is much more life to live...... and to live well is the best thing we can do.

Weigh to go!!!!!

Jim 


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 6/16/08 3:04 am
Topic: RE: Big Fart -- half the man I used to be

That is so friggin' awesome!!!!! Dude, you lost a twin!!!!

Not so bad, he was probably the evil one who forced you to eat all that junk!!!

Congratulations


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 6/12/08 3:18 am
Topic: RE: What foods do you find the most helpful?

These lists are great but I want to add one item:

Greek yougurt. 

It's creamy and lacks the tang of some yogurt that some people don't like.  It's fairly well available at regular grocery stores in our area and can be found at most health food stores as well.  Slightly thicker than regular yougurt and available in non-fat (0%), low-fat (2%) and regular.  The beauty is that is carries almost twice the protein as regular yougurt.

They sell a single serve (5.3 oz) of the non-fat it's around 80 cal and 13g of protein.  Add some pumpkin seeds, almonds or walnuts and you can boost the single serving to almost 22g.

I use it in the morning for breakfast and it mixes well with sugar free preserves for a fruity yogurt.  Add fresh fruit (blueberries, strawberries) and it tastes like heaven.  I also add to chili or eggs as a sour cream substitute.  I even use it to make a dipping sauce for grilled chicken, sort of like a ranch or taziki sauce and it helps moisten the meat.

 


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 5/20/08 3:48 am
Topic: RE: Surgery date moved up!!

Rob,

Congratulations and good luck! Weigh to go Loser!

I wanted to pass on a "weird" but effective piece of advice I got right before my surgery (3 months ago).  I was told that shaving the back of my wrist and upper arms would save me all kind of pain.  Since the glue/tape they use now is almost like welding it on, the removal of the hair in the areas where we get the IV, blood tests, antibiotics, etc. prevented those little suckers from getting caught in the tape and ripping out each time they changed the IV or gave me a new test/IV.

Sounds weird but it worked!

Again, good luck and we'll save a seat on the loser's bench for you


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 5/20/08 3:40 am
Topic: RE: info for support group? You opinion needed!

DxE,

You honor us with your request oh great and wise one! LOL

Serioulsy though, I find that I cut an paste large chunks of the back and forth you find on this forum into documents.  With guys from all phases of the journey (newbies, wannabee's, post-ops, yearlings, old timers, really, really old timers) there is a lot of really good info that flys around here. It happens so fast and fortunately most of you are patient and don't hesitate to "re-run" a particularly good or informative posting.  I've got my Supplies file (where to get stuff), a Recipe File (Smoothie Bible, Chili recipe's, Breakfast and Lunch ideas, etc.),a medical file (various posts on medical concerns, symptoms, physiology, how we are piped and plumbed, etc.)-even have a large type copy of BajaAddicts Bristol Chart!!!

Handouts, specifically around common topics, is a great way to keep the information flowing....think USA Today mentality...quick little snippetts of info focused around a single idea or area of concern.  I've shared the "smoothie bible" I got from the Locker Room with half a dozen people already.

The key would be to focus on our common concerns:

Dealing with life-where to get the supplements, food, shakes, support stuff. Not advertising, just pointing to potential suppliers, places to get the stuff, etc.

Dealing with living-how do we go out for meals, how do we reacclimate into "normal routine" while learning about our new pouch/band/sleeve.

Hope this rambling gives you some ideas.

Jim (Bigdog80)


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 5/16/08 2:33 am
Topic: RE: follow up to Atty Dallas

I think I've picked up more post-op, how to handle life, advice in the past 10 minutes reading these posts than a crap load of counseling.

1. Definitely going to save a set of the big boy clothes.

2. Definitely going to concentrate on living forward

and

3. Definitely not going to answer the door for the paper boy, or Grandma's or anybody else!!!!!

 

Thanks guys for the sharing!

 

 


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 4/14/08 8:13 am
Topic: RE: Three weeks out; bitter pills

I found that opening the capsule up and putting it in a shot glass on top off either 1) liquid bullet protein or 2) liquid vitamins made the whole thing easier.  These two liquids are "heavy" enough that the Uriodol doesn't mix put stays on top or just into the first layer.  I figure the liquid vitamins are only needed until I'm done with the Uriodol but the protein shots are a good second option

The shot glass makes for a one gulp.....

Now if you add lime and a little salt then we'd really be talking! LOL

Good Luck

Bigdog80


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 4/11/08 9:49 pm
Topic: RE: what's the deal with???
Everyone is unique in how they handle this situation.  The generally recognized rule of thumb..30 min between dribble or nibble...is designed to fit most situations and it is a very simple rule to follow The flushing and potential nutrient loss will eventually catch up with you...in either not meeting your body's needs...or.....in a subtle increase in hunger and the amount you eat and take in.   Herein lies the biggest threat....you won't notice it coming....and since we (former fatties) are experts in rationalizing (how do you think we all got to be the size we were!) then you are playing close to the edge. If you HAVE to drink fluids and eat....use a very very small cup or other method to limit yourself.  In reality in may be easier to just give in and follow the rule.  as YODA might say "Sometimes you may break it but follow it you must.."


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 4/11/08 9:21 pm
Topic: RE: Any last advice before Tues.(D-Day)?

I second everything that's already been said but here's a "strange" bit of advice that I remember from my surgery 2 months ago.  Depending on the level of "hairiness" you have, shave the back of your hand and forearms.  This removes the hair from the areas where they insert the IV and prevents them from getting caught in the tape.  Sounds weird but I know it save a lot of post-op pain from getting the IV switched, bandages after blood samples, etc. Good Luck, we'll all be thinking about you and wishing you a safe and speedy recovery and landing on the Loser's Bench


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/28/08 9:18 pm
Topic: RE: home again and recovering..
Like the swallows returning every year to San Juan Capistrano...you can always depend on Baja to provide a copy of the Bristol Chart to every post re: Bowel Movements!!!!! And I will add, with all due respect to my WLS brother...it remains one of the best visual aids ever.  I provided a printed copy to my WLS doc when we were discussing by "movements" and he too found it it hilarious. As far as your original post....I found the loose (Bristol 7) lasted about 1-2 weeks post-op and then moved to a Bristol 5-6.  Color was also an interesting phenomena as it appeared light tan almost khaki.  This can be attributed to the protein powders, cottage cheese, cheese, etc. from the "soft food" phase. Don't worry....soon the color will return and you'll be working your way up the Bristol chart. Good luck and take it slow and steady...your body will do the rest. Bigdog


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/28/08 8:59 pm
Topic: RE: GOT MY SURGERY DATE!
Bama, Congrats man.....the best thing is now you won't be able to forget your surgiversary!!!!! So now, when you're old and feeble and skinny and the mind is starting to become mindless and then someone asks...when did it happen?...you can say.....Tax Day! Good Luck, all of your WLS bubba's are rooting for you! Bigdog


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/23/08 12:28 am
Topic: RE: My Secret Identity Was Almost Exposed At Wal-Mart Last Night
Way to go Boner.....really thinking "outside of the box".....hey wait!?!?! Is that where Baja was headed....


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/20/08 8:00 pm
Topic: RE: 8 Days out...? about protein

Lance,

I found at Vitamin Shoppe (similar to GNC) a protein pudding that is pretty good. Get the powder form (the pre-mixed tastes like ground up shoe leather) that gives you 25g and mixes up into a pudding (for the soft phase).  Use skim milk instead of water and it gets a boost to 30-35g.  Taste is pretty decent

Bigdog80


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/19/08 12:48 pm
Topic: RE: APPROVED by BC-BS!!

Bama,

Absolute wonderful news.....get ready to kiss your old life goodbye, time for a new start on the Losers Bench

Bigdog80


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/14/08 1:25 am
Topic: RE: Friday Coffee Talk

Come on Boner, you haven't lived until you get to spend a weekend doing Intercourse, PA.

Yes, laughter is the best medicine

Bigdog80


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/7/08 8:04 am
Topic: RE: Finally!
When a farmer loves a sheep, it's called sick.....when a farmer loves a cow and a sheep both, it's called bisexual. Bama, it's OK to go to Vandy but definitely don't let those animal husbands have any time with you! Great news on your submittal.....now it's all in the paperwork and scheduling> Good Luck Bigdog80


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/7/08 7:58 am
Topic: RE: 3 Month progress pic... yes, being a compliment Ho!.. and a FART!
Weigh to go!!!!!!  You look really good and it only keeps getting better from here. Congrats big guy! Bigdog80


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/6/08 11:58 am
Topic: RE: Guidance on Where I'm At Now???
Taz, I've experienced a lot of the same stuff as Guy however I can feel the stuff going down. I'm doing the soft puree phase...my doc's protocol was 48 hrs clear liquid, 7 days liquid and then soft/puree for 3 weeks with transition to solids. The cottage cheese, oatmeal, mash potato stuff goes down ok but I feel it start to fill up at the 5-6 oz point.  Had some ground up meatloaf and after 5 oz could really feel full and uncomfortable. My doc says the 4-6 oz range should be maintained for a while and only move up slightly in quantitiy as you introduce more foods. Portion sizes are a little weird as I was trying to estimate and found myself going over.  I'm sure it's a pysch leftover from the "old FAT" days.  Got a super accurate scale and have been weighing or using the measuring cup just to get the portion size right for my eyes.  I feel the same way after 3-4 oz's....went down easy, feel OK, do I want more?  Mind and eyes sometimes say yes, even though stomach feels full.  I guarantee one way to cure yourself is to eat the extra 1/2 cup or so.......the stuffed, uncomfortable feeling is very unpleasant and in my case becoming a good deterrent to eating too much. Keep posting, this is a fascinating journey isn't  it.....


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/6/08 11:43 am
Topic: RE: Finally!
Way to go Bama.....it won't be long now!!!!


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/4/08 1:18 pm
Topic: RE: APPROVED

Randy,

Way to go man!.........Now's the time to dust off those walking shoes (as you stated the dancing is OUT...NO WAY at this weight ) The walking was some of the best advice I ever got from these veterans.........baby steps now, just be sure you are ready to HIT THE PAVEMENT as soon after surgery as you can. Gets rid of the gas, kick starts the circulation and prevents all sorts of bad stuff. I'm convinced the walking is how I got out of the hospital 36 hrs post surgery... went under at 7:30 a.m. on Wednesday for my LAP RNY and was sent home from the hospital at 7:00 pm on Thursday. Good luck Loser dude!


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/3/08 10:02 pm
Topic: RE: My FART!!!

Let me just say the aroma of that one is incredible....way to go!

Your monthly mileage goal is a trick I'm adding to my routine.  Been a long time since I've even seen a mile in anything resembling a run--think slow amble with multiple stops "to catch the view"  GASP! WHEEZE!

Keep it UP!!!!


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/3/08 9:56 pm
Topic: RE: FART!

Jonathan,

 You are my hero man!  Way to go!!!!! Wooooooo!

You just keep on going.....

Bigdog80


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

bigdog80
on 3/3/08 9:52 pm
Topic: RE: ****ty Question
Taz, I'm about a week ahead of you and without the the kindness of Baja and others I would have never know about the Bristol Scale.  Truly an educational experience I found that the first week or so was really dark and Bristol 6-7.  My nut attributes the color to the system cleaning up and completing the healing as well as the scarcity of input material from the clear liquid / liquid diet.  As I've been adding the soft food the color has returned a lighter color and added some "flotsam & jetsam"  (added the nautical terms for Baja) Most recently it seems to be coming out more solidified. I feel your concern....been there....doo-ing that..... Time baby, time....we just started this ride! Hang tough and one day we too might doo like the pros!


 “Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow.” Mary Ann Radmacher

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