Travel and Intimacy Post-Op

Glow2182
on 12/21/13 12:55 am - WA

Yeah im still worried about even fitting in an airplane at that point...

HW 505  SW 446  GW 200.       VSG Surgery on 1/22/14

    

Sparklekitty, Science-Loving Derby Hag
on 12/20/13 8:08 am
RNY on 08/05/19

My post-surgery guide says "no vigorous sex for 4 weeks." I'm a week and a half out and I feel waaaaay too sore for sexytime (hubby is having a rough time with that) but hopefully I'll be up for it soon.

Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!

Glow2182
on 12/21/13 12:57 am - WA

Lol I'll be sure to warn him that even if I am up for it, it won't be the most amazing experience :-p

HW 505  SW 446  GW 200.       VSG Surgery on 1/22/14

    

Kelly-AnneH
on 12/20/13 2:57 pm - Edmonton, Canada
VSG on 06/26/12
My sis, hubby, daughters, several friends and I traveled home (Canada, from Mexicali) within a week of our surgeries. I can only answer about intimacy for hubby and myself, and both times (surgeries a year apart) it was 2-3 weeks.

The usual "rule" about intimacy is "when you feel comfortable - preferably after you leave the hospital." You won't know for yourself until after your surgery, so the best suggestion I can give is to be kind to yourself and pay attention to how you're feeling.

Kelly-Anne

   

Highest 303.4, Surgery 263, Current 217.8, Goal 180

 
  

     
  

Glow2182
on 12/21/13 1:02 am - WA

Ok thanks! I've been trying to prepare him for all if the possible outcomes of the surgery so I'll probably have to remind him that I will most likely still be pretty sore that soon out (and of course hormonal as mentioned above) the good thing is that I know that even if he is slightly disappointed if I'm not in the mood for sex he will still be very understanding about why. He is a very understanding guy.

HW 505  SW 446  GW 200.       VSG Surgery on 1/22/14

    

mickeymantle
on 12/21/13 1:28 am - Eugene/Springfield, OR
VSG on 07/22/13

so give him as much sex as you can before your surgery and set up a play date for the end of Feb. beginning of March ,maybe go away for a weekend alone with him

    

   175 lb  lost,412 hw 336sw,241 cw surgery July 22 2013,surgeon Dr Colin MacColl,

 

  

                                                                                                             

 

 

 

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